A bit over excited...and pet names already?

It's just a thought - maybe it's something that bothers me a bit more than others? But, when a man contacts me and wants to chat and know me - I look at it as an opportunity to do just that, chat and find if there is compatibility between us. I'm not looking to have my thoughts jump ahead and wonder if he could be the one. One step at a time folks!

The excitement in email #2, should be relaxed and toned down. In other words..."Oh hey, hi! How are you doing? I'm so glad you responded baby..." should not be something that is disclosed - as it seems desperate and clingy. My responding to your intial email makes it seem like someone actually gave you the time of day in responding to who knows how many mass emails you sent out to different women. It's a numbers game right?

Well - when I receive the excited response along with calling me baby and/or honey...I get a little weary in responding the second time. It's not to be picky...but is. Why on earth would anyone do that? You don't know me enough to call me pet names!

I'm a honest and courteous person and I respond to everyone. Whether they like my response or not. Attraction is key and if I'm not attracted I say so. If I feel that our backgrounds wouldn't mesh well...I say so. I don't run or hide and delete emails people send because I'm a low individual with "people are beneath me" standards. I look at everything realistically and logically and base my decision on content and what words you chose to utilize in your profiles.

I'm not better than you - and you're not better than me. We should be considered equals in a sense.

But, the pet names? And, getting all excited? Is a major no-no. Don't assume all women like it. Please don't assume I like it, because I don't. That's why I'm blogging it...to give you a clue.