I'm the same way. When certain people continue to IM you, then it does become annoying.
Lately, I have mine turn off too. I was getting so many a day. I couldn't even type in forums or blogs without getting interrupted every minute, it seemed.
I had it on for a long while until I disabled it. And I like it better that way. If they are really interested, then send an email. You still have to type either way.
I noticed your blogs seem to be out there. So you said the black guys you dated seem to be the same. And you think that a white guy might be different.
So if you get this "white guy" and he is like the black guys you dated, then what?
Move on to the next color spectrum. Not all the black guys are the same. Maybe just the ones you dated.
People are different. Anyway, good and bad is in all races. No one race have a hold on either.
Just hope for that good man, wherever he is. Just forget color or race. It doesn't mean anything.
Also don't forget that finding love takes time. Especially true love.
RE: NO IM CHATS
I'm the same way. When certain people continue to IM you, then it does become annoying.Lately, I have mine turn off too. I was getting so many a day. I couldn't even type in forums or blogs without getting interrupted every minute, it seemed.
I had it on for a long while until I disabled it. And I like it better that way. If they are really interested, then send an email. You still have to type either way.