He Would've Cuss/Hit Me If I Was a Guy!
Oh, I just had to share this funny little story with you. The other day when I was at the mall shopping from store to store.I was running around checking out interesting clothes, purses, shoes, you name it! Women like myself, is addicted!
My friends had left ahead to do different things. I was near the back of the store checking out the latest trends on the racks.
There was this hot guy that at first I didn't see behind me. His back was turn toward me. I was so busy doing whatever that I turn around abruptly and bump hard into him.
He jerk around very fast, he was pissed. I could see the anger in his eyes for a moment! He was about my age, well-built, over six feet tall. Very attractive.
Then when he saw who the culprit was: Me, a petite, short female, then his facial expression soften. He smiled at me. Looking me up and down!
I told him that I was sorry and excuse myself from bumping into him.
He said to me that it was okay sweetie! Then after talking with me for a moment, he ask me for my number.
But deep in my mind, I couldn't help but think that if I had been another guy, he probably would have cuss/hit me!
We exchanged numbers but it got me thinking. Is this the type of person I would like to get to know?
It was just an instant ago that he probably would've started something with me, if I had been a big, tough guy like himself.
But then again I was the one that almost knock him down accidentally! Or maybe, I judged too quickly.
I probably would have been offended if someone had almost knock me down too!
Oh and by the way, I ask my friends about it and they told me to go for it, girl!
Oh my, how a certain person can change the situation! LMAO!
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Well, you aren't a guy so why would you expect him to do that? But, I am wondering if maybe you were checking him out so much you subconsiously bumped into him? Guys will jump on most opportunities that fall into their lap, so to speak, but that seems like he really took this one to the extreme. I've bumped into people on accident, or vice versa, but if they gave me their number I probably would not call. Can you really have a great connection with someone after a 15 second encounter? Sounds like he is trying to turn your "bad" into his good. I woudnt bother...
At first I thought hey, she can call him, why not? But this part of her blog really stood out to me:
"But deep in my mind, I couldn't help but think that if I had been another guy, he probably would have cuss/hit me!"
And, in line with your thought, trust your gut. If deep in her mind she knew he would have hit her if she was a man, to me that pretty much signifies that this interaction was entirely superficial.
My take on the issue…which will take precedent over any other take except Miss Venus’s…is that she is a young girl and it’s her time to have fun, doesn’t matter it comes in an awkward way or more in line with what’s considered normal or according to the right decorum.
P.S.
How could you a petite, short female alomost nock down the 6 feet, well built guy? Just curious.
Actually, I can tell if a person is up to no good pretty well. As I talk to the guy, he seem pretty decent and cool.
Darling.... how many women that became victims of hostile men do you think thought this very same thing? My guess is they all did... A woman is not a victim with a guy she has suspicions about... and i am sure every woman thought they could tell a person too.... I think you are making a mistake.... Men can't be that scarce where you live.....
To Easy Rider-I understand what your saying. I'm definitely not going to rush to get with this man or anyone else.
I will indeed take my time to to try to get it right.
When I'm busy, I can be a klutz sometimes when it comes to paying attention to what I'm doing in the mall.
I don't know, I was like a kid in the candy store checking out all the latest fashions I adored!
But I bet he would have knock me down if he had bump into me instead!
Your nievity has charm all its own......
Also, it has been my experience that people are going to do just what they want to do, no matter what I advise. Have you noticed that many people ask for advice but very few actually take it? Then when they end up in trouble or upset, you are the first one they call to talk about it?
Have a wonderful Easter, everyone!
your funny. And there is a mall near me where people will actually cuss you out and beat you up if you bump into them....or worse yet, will bump into you and then curse you out and try to start a fight! I have seen it myself! Its ridiculous....I only go to that mall for one store that I like...otherwise I would normally stear clear. Its not in a great neighborhood to begin with. Anyway, along the lines of you thought about people doing whatever they want.... Im sure she will call him anyway even though her instincts told her otherwise.
"Actually, I can tell if a person is up to no good pretty well. As I talk to the guy, he seem pretty decent and cool.
At the time, his reaction made me jokingly think that he probably would've have reacted differently if I had been a guy."
We all just do what we want, don't we? I just pray she stays safe. That's all that matters.
But I promise you...this mall is horrible. I couldnt believe it myself until about 5 people ran into me and tried to start something....one girl even skipped me in line by bumping past me, and then when I called her on it she tried to argue with me! haha
Anyway, Miss Venus, Mr. Pitts was trying to send his birth information to you but you have a filter...I tried to email you also but I also have a filter...so, indeed, you are sheltered