I see the needy rule may have some room for leway. If a guy or a girl is needy all the time or has multiple problems then its hit the road but there are time everyone has issues and if someone has one issue going on but everything else in life is good then perhaps a little patience to see if once that one issue is dealt with does life get back to normal or does another issue come up.
here is another twist. I know if she goes to live with her mom that her mom is going to want me to pay child support, I have no problem helping support my kids, I have been tghere only support for many years but i know from past experience that there mom does not use child support for the kids, she spends it all on herself. I have paid off enough of her bills over the years and now I want my money to bennifit the kids and not just add to her luxuries while the kids do without.
that is what im afraid of. it is like a no win situation. I have to admit though I am angery about what her mom did over the years and I want to be carefull that I am doing what is best for her and not just being angery at her mom for all the hurs she caused. I thought about haveing her talk to her older step sister who knows and remembers a lot of the stuff so she is getting it threw a different sorse.
here is the situation, My ex had a long history of lying and cheeting and irresponsible spending and not paying her bills, and walking out on her kids. she left me 9 years ago fo be with the man she was preg from and has since lived with 3 different guys in for different homes in three different citys. this past year she hads been pretty good at spending tome with the kids but before that she would not even drive 10 miles to see her daughter play soccer. Now all the sudden my daughter who is 14 and does not know all the stuff about her mom wants to move and live with her. I understand a teen girl wanting her mom but I dont think it would be the best thing because within a year she may be with another guy in some othere house. she would have to change schools. as it is right now I makle sure she has time to spend with her mom and me both but if she moves I would not see her much. If I just say no without any explination then I am just the bad guy who wont let her go but If I explain why I dont want her to live with her mom then Im just bad mouthing her mom to her and I have never done that as I dont think it is right. so now I am woundering do I tell her about her mom or do I continue to protect her from the truth. Im not sure what to do, what do you all think.
man bashing makes me go arrrrrg. the women i have known are 10 times more meen, vindictive, lying cheeters than any man I have ever known so those who seem to think it is cool and acceptable to belittle men in general should be looking in the mirror.
I believe it is impossible to talk about nothing because the moment you talk about it it becomes something and even if that something is nothing you end up with an oxymoron which is something so even if you try to talk about nothing the more you talk about it the more it becomes something even if nothing more than an oxymoron therefore as we talk about nothing we create something out of nothing and and only god can do that so by talking about nothing are we in fact acting like gods by creating something out of nothing and I for one dont believe I am a god so it is impossible to create something out of nothing and therefore it is impossible to talk about nothing.
I totaly agree with this and I have all the above except someone to love. Well actualy I would like to add to the someone to love, to make that a true key to happyness it should read someone to love who loves you back. I love someone who does not share my love and that does not lead to happyness.
Id say why cant you hook me up with a reasonable, intelligent, and rational woman. I know they are out there, I see them all the time but they are always taken and all I get are the lunitic nut cases,, just once I would like to go out with someone who is not insane.
In my time here in cs, I have seen far more man bashing than woman bashing. Women please get a clue. not all men are bad. I truely wish we did not have to take sides or be devided by gender, I wish with all my heart we could all be people treated equaly and viewed equaly and judged by individuals and individual actions and personalities instead of grouped by gender. Not all men are the same just as not all women are the same. there are bad ones and good ones equaly on both sides. We should not be celiberatin womanhood or manhood, we should celibrate humanity and strive to get along.
Im afraid Im compatable with the animals in the forest. I see a deer, or a bear, or a cougar and I know those animals, I know how they will respond and how to approach or not approach in a given situation. they are predictable. Women on the other hand are not predictable. one will react one way and the next another. you never know how to approach or not approach and it seem no matter how I do it is it the wrong way so I guess I just need to find a woman who is a wild animal.
I dont know if Im compatibale or not but Id like to fantisize of the compatibality of lisa smith from the celtic women group. I have had a crush on her for years. If any of you from Ireland know her let her know Im here
Of all the people I know personaly that have cheeted the women cheeters out number the men 3 to 1. the only reason men have such a bad rap on this is that men when cheeted on tend to keep it quiet and deal with the hurt within themselves and women when cheeted on share it, shout it, point fingers and make a federal case about it. That is why you here about the men cheeting more than the women.
I totaly agree. I consider myself very lucky as my ex and I have never fought about the kids. we share them with support and understanding of each others need and the kids need for each of us. When we divorded we agreed that that was the most important thing and all other issues where of minor importance.
selfishness is what causes people to cheet as they are more concerned with there own desires than the needs of there husband or wife.
selfishness is what causes a person to over spend there budget without reguard to the conciquences.
selfishness is what causes a person to be more concerned with being right at all expence to the feelings of there partner resulting in arguments that go on and on with no solution.
selfishness is what causes a person to disraguard there spouse in any and all ways that result in distance and hard feelings.
selfishness is the root of all the other things that cause divorce.
the members of the salvation army are such heros. They truely give of themselves not because it is a cariear but because they believe in what they are doing.
these people Im talking about are not heros once or twice, or just when the oppurtunity arises, they are heros every day, day after day for a life time.
Unsung heros,,, how about those who choose to work in a field that has few rewards but the satisfaction of knowing you are making a difference in someones life, like people who work in nursing homes, people who work with disabled kids, people who visit the blood bank on a regular basis, people who voluntear in youth programs or food banks or shoup kitchens. these people dedicate there lives to helping others and seldome get any reward or recignition for there efforts.
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RE: the number of partners a 44 year old woman should have had
2,0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000+1[/quotI believe that is every man in the world and since she has not gotten to me yet you will have to subtract one