I am sorry but this really paints a picture that ALL Muslims are like this and live there lives in this way. I live in a Muslim country and this generalization is simply not TRUE.
If it was something of importance such as a conviction, illnes that may re occur, thn yes i would want to know just to be aware. As for past relationships nope don't want to go there . Some things are better unsaid and concentrate on the future.
Often when you split after a long term relationship the feelings around are difficulte to explain especially for the one who didn't really want break up . I think you go thro a series of emotions, similiar to that of a breavement before you are able to move on . When ppl are hurt they lash out and say things they don't mean. He needs time to accept and adapt jmo
RE: My thread
Wheni read you posts i really must wear my glasses !!!