DATING VIBES! (47)
Looks and weight issues...man, you're about to get slaughtered........
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It's not worth my opinion
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If a woman sees her value in the way I am dressed when I am with her, she has very low value in herself..
I will not mention names, but there is a woman I have gotten to know & know pretty well. She is not the petite little thing my ego is attracted to. I am and forever will be I took the time to get to know this lady. Most likely, nothing will ever develop but what a wonderful friend I have made.
Suck it up dude, look beyond the outward apperance. Just realize that "you" may not be the prize catch that you appear to think you are.. And that my friend is one man to another. I have been where you are..
I will not mention names, but there is a woman I have gotten to know & know pretty well. She is not the petite little thing my ego is attracted to. I am and forever will be I took the time to get to know this lady. Most likely, nothing will ever develop but what a wonderful friend I have made.
Suck it up dude, look beyond the outward apperance. Just realize that "you" may not be the prize catch that you appear to think you are.. And that my friend is one man to another. I have been where you are..
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renmarkable: Hello all
I, Renmarkable Nick, would like to know if people who have been on first or even second dates with someone they have first met 'get a vibe' if their date is 'the one' or not (eventual boy/girlfriend leading to husband/wife)..
Another discussion point: is appearance an issue for your dates?
To me it is very much so. My date would need to be most presentable and with a pride in appearance..
Is weight an issue? Eg large people..
To me it is. I may sound like a you know what but just going on from past experiences. Slimmer women (not stick insects!!) are what I prefer. That's me. Give me your opinions on that also...
Tell me what you think
Bye for now...
I, Renmarkable Nick, would like to know if people who have been on first or even second dates with someone they have first met 'get a vibe' if their date is 'the one' or not (eventual boy/girlfriend leading to husband/wife)..
Another discussion point: is appearance an issue for your dates?
To me it is very much so. My date would need to be most presentable and with a pride in appearance..
Is weight an issue? Eg large people..
To me it is. I may sound like a you know what but just going on from past experiences. Slimmer women (not stick insects!!) are what I prefer. That's me. Give me your opinions on that also...
Tell me what you think
Bye for now...
I usually get a vibe before the end of the first date if it's an eventual "the one." But it has little to do with looks, it's more about common interests and the person's self-confidence.
You have a right to your preferences in the looks department, just remember that she can have them too.
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alabamabebe: I usually get a vibe before the end of the first date if it's an eventual "the one." But it has little to do with looks, it's more about common interests and the person's self-confidence..
Well said....
You have a right to your preferences in the looks department, just remember that she can have them too.
Well said....
You have a right to your preferences in the looks department, just remember that she can have them too.
Yes chemistry...been out with drop dead gorgeous hunks but luke warm reaction and forgotten in five minutes...its also about timing and whether you are at the stage to meet the 'one'.
Looks is a part of the attraction but don't ever discount anyone that may not 'fit' into your agenda, you may find yourself pleasantly surprised.
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renmarkable: Hello all
I, Renmarkable Nick, would like to know if people who have been on first or even second dates with someone they have first met 'get a vibe' if their date is 'the one' or not (eventual boy/girlfriend leading to husband/wife)..
Another discussion point: is appearance an issue for your dates?
To me it is very much so. My date would need to be most presentable and with a pride in appearance..
Is weight an issue? Eg large people..
To me it is. I may sound like a you know what but just going on from past experiences. Slimmer women (not stick insects!!) are what I prefer. That's me. Give me your opinions on that also...
Tell me what you think
Bye for now...
I, Renmarkable Nick, would like to know if people who have been on first or even second dates with someone they have first met 'get a vibe' if their date is 'the one' or not (eventual boy/girlfriend leading to husband/wife)..
Another discussion point: is appearance an issue for your dates?
To me it is very much so. My date would need to be most presentable and with a pride in appearance..
Is weight an issue? Eg large people..
To me it is. I may sound like a you know what but just going on from past experiences. Slimmer women (not stick insects!!) are what I prefer. That's me. Give me your opinions on that also...
Tell me what you think
Bye for now...
I got a "vibe" already and didn't even have to go on a date!!! 
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onya mate enjoy the US of A fat country!
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exactly right..
..put it simply if i had a choice of an overweight, intelligent, great personality woman and a stunning slim beauty with no personality. I'd chose neither.
..Obviously they have opinions of me too. I'm no oil painting but hey I keep fit and look after myself ie am not fat and I expect my 'date' to be the same as me..oh and with personality too..
..all the best mate
..put it simply if i had a choice of an overweight, intelligent, great personality woman and a stunning slim beauty with no personality. I'd chose neither.
..Obviously they have opinions of me too. I'm no oil painting but hey I keep fit and look after myself ie am not fat and I expect my 'date' to be the same as me..oh and with personality too..
..all the best mate
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Appearance and weight both matter in chosing a prospect.
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exactly right..
..put it simply if i had a choice of an overweight, intelligent, great personality woman and a stunning slim beauty with no personality. I'd chose neither.
..Obviously they have opinions of me too. I'm no oil painting but hey I keep fit and look after myself ie am not fat and I expect my 'date' to be the same as me..oh and with personality too..
..all the best
..put it simply if i had a choice of an overweight, intelligent, great personality woman and a stunning slim beauty with no personality. I'd chose neither.
..Obviously they have opinions of me too. I'm no oil painting but hey I keep fit and look after myself ie am not fat and I expect my 'date' to be the same as me..oh and with personality too..
..all the best
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renmarkable: onya mate enjoy the US of A fat country!
What was that for?
There are fat/overweight people everywhere.
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renmarkable: priv8 joke...realise there's fat people everywhere...that's bad
..they need to have an attitude!
..ie do something about it!
..they need to have an attitude!
..ie do something about it!
We have a rule on cs. You can't talk ill of overweight people.
But character assasination is more than welcome.
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shhhh........ 
lusciousmile: We have a rule on cs. You can't talk ill of overweight people.
But character assasination is more than welcome.
But character assasination is more than welcome.
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maybe i have misunderstood, but if you have an issue with 'large ppl' you would not be dating them anyway? ppl are not trophies surely if you liked a persons personality the fact they may be large wouldn't stop you dating them ? 
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rule? lol
it's my opinion sweety..I am ugly to some people and that's ok by me. Fat people do NOT do it to me. Simple as that hunny..
Cheers and best of luck..
ps: i'm sure fat people shall get over their bridges and that is if the bridges can withstand the weight!!
lol
it's my opinion sweety..I am ugly to some people and that's ok by me. Fat people do NOT do it to me. Simple as that hunny..
Cheers and best of luck..
ps: i'm sure fat people shall get over their bridges and that is if the bridges can withstand the weight!!
lol
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j_goose: Looks and weight issues...man, you're about to get slaughtered........
I always love your comments Jim. You are right on.
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renmarkable: rule? lol
it's my opinion sweety..I am ugly to some people and that's ok by me. Fat people do NOT do it to me. Simple as that hunny..
Cheers and best of luck..
ps: i'm sure fat people shall get over their bridges and that is if the bridges can withstand the weight!!
lol
please could you include post of person you are addressing, makes it easier. it's my opinion sweety..I am ugly to some people and that's ok by me. Fat people do NOT do it to me. Simple as that hunny..
Cheers and best of luck..
ps: i'm sure fat people shall get over their bridges and that is if the bridges can withstand the weight!!
lol
Your quote i have include is really quite offensive
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morganlee: maybe i have misunderstood, but if you have an issue with 'large ppl' you would not be dating them anyway? ppl are not trophies surely if you liked a persons personality the fact they may be large wouldn't stop you dating them ?
Morgan. Koni.
Your post has just inspired some thought. *Not directed at you in particular*
Why is it necessary that we find people with the perfect attitudes/personalities yet distasteful to even consider that we should want the same on the outside ( appearance)??
I frankly don't believe in 'it's what's inside that matters'.
Beauty as personality is relative and i for one think that both the inside and outside matter to everyone to some extent.
What my man finds attractive( me) could be unattractive to another but he obviously appreciates the outside as well otherwise we wouldn't hear men/women say 'You look lovely honey'.
If you find your partner attractive then looks do matter, that is the look you have chosen to be attractive to you.
All relative, all matters.
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I, Renmarkable Nick, would like to know if people who have been on first or even second dates with someone they have first met 'get a vibe' if their date is 'the one' or not (eventual boy/girlfriend leading to husband/wife)..
Another discussion point: is appearance an issue for your dates?
To me it is very much so. My date would need to be most presentable and with a pride in appearance..
Is weight an issue? Eg large people..
To me it is. I may sound like a you know what but just going on from past experiences. Slimmer women (not stick insects!!) are what I prefer. That's me. Give me your opinions on that also...
Tell me what you think
Bye for now...