Why I feel so empty? ( Archived) (56)

Feb 21, 2008 11:00 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
If somebody try to speak with me on nice way, I always try to show him how bad am I.

After, I am sorry why I do that.


I still bring scare in heart (from my ex).

How long I should wait, to become “old” ME?

I become best one in showing bad side of my personality.......

I am still afraid and lock my soul deep inside myself.
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Feb 21, 2008 11:02 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
sandra35: If somebody try to speak with me on nice way, I always try to show him how bad am I.

After, I am sorry why I do that. I still bring scare in heart (from my ex).

How long I should wait, to become “old” ME?

I become best one in showing bad side of my personality.......

I am still afraid and lock my soul deep inside myself.


When you stop living in FEAR and make a "choice" to live again..wink
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Feb 21, 2008 11:04 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
HJFinAZ: When you stop living in FEAR and make a "choice" to live again..


I try..........sigh

But, my heart stays lock.


crying
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Feb 21, 2008 11:04 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
You just have to learn to like your self.
list all the good thing you have done all the good things you intend to do no matter how small . I bet you it will be longer than you think.
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Feb 21, 2008 11:04 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
You must have been hurt or put down really bad, you have a right to live. Best to you.hug
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Feb 21, 2008 11:05 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
sandra35: I try..........

But, my heart stays lock.


Keep trying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!wink


hug
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Feb 21, 2008 11:05 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
mastic55: You must have been hurt or put down really bad, you have a right to live. Best to you.


Yes

sigh
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Feb 21, 2008 11:06 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
HJFinAZ: Keep trying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I will........

hug
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Feb 21, 2008 11:07 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
sandra35: If somebody try to speak with me on nice way, I always try to show him how bad am I.

After, I am sorry why I do that. I still bring scare in heart (from my ex).

How long I should wait, to become “old” ME?

I become best one in showing bad side of my personality.......

I am still afraid and lock my soul deep inside myself.


comfort .. You need to step back and take some time to be YOU again.. (first) hug

But I know what you mean.. I always try to get the bad stuff out the way first (not a good idea really)


I think it's a way of testing to see whether they can put up with you..

by showing the worst bits of you first..

it's a way of finding out whether they can handle all your 'stuff' or not.
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Feb 21, 2008 11:07 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
PILIPALA: You just have to learn to like your self.
list all the good thing you have done all the good things you intend to do no matter how small . I bet you it will be longer than you think.


I think so, too
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Feb 21, 2008 11:07 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
BUT!.. I hasten to add.. in my case.. it usually makes them run a mile laugh

It's something I need to learn to stop doing.
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Feb 21, 2008 11:09 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
sandra35
sandra35sandra35Zemun, Central Serbia Serbia18 Threads 268 Posts
Claayer: .. You need to step back and take some time to be YOU again.. (first)

But I know what you mean.. I always try to get the bad stuff out the way first (not a good idea really)I think it's a way of testing to see whether they can put up with you..

by showing the worst bits of you first..

it's a way of finding out whether they can handle all your 'stuff' or not.


Thank you.
You are right.

I still try to find where I made mistake.......



sigh
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Feb 21, 2008 11:12 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
sandra35: Thank you.
You are right.

I still try to find where I made mistake.......


Reelaaax... stuff'em!....

Float in the bath.. have some girlie time.. do the things YOU like.. eat what you want.. wear what you want.. go where you want.. and DO what you want.


and Stop thinking..

Over analysing is a baaad thing.. (I am the QUEEN of that!) roll eyes roll eyes
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Feb 21, 2008 11:13 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
as soon as you want that loving feeling enough that its stronger then
your fear is of getting hurt....I think by just questioning it to yourself, you're already finding the strength. I was kinda like that too.
hug comfort hug
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Feb 21, 2008 11:14 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Hellooo Trudy wave hug
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Feb 21, 2008 11:15 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Just enjoy being you for a bit and stop trying to test people to see if they stick aroundthumbs up
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Feb 21, 2008 11:16 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer: Hellooo Trudy


Hiiii Claayer, how are you doing today? feeling okhug

you gave some great advice to sandra, you rock!cheers
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Feb 21, 2008 11:16 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
PILIPALA: Just enjoy being you for a bit and stop trying to test people to see if they stick around


thumbs up thumbs up
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Feb 21, 2008 11:17 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
blue_eyed_blonde: Hiiii Claayer, how are you doing today? feeling ok

you gave some great advice to sandra, you rock!


haha no.. but still. roll eyes

hug
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Feb 21, 2008 11:31 AM CST Why I feel so empty?
skwidwurd
skwidwurdskwidwurdAberdeen, Grampian, Scotland UK37 Threads 631 Posts
just remember that we all must kiss a few frogs before we find our prince/princess. get yourself out there dating people and try not to take these dates too seriously. if you find yourself drawn to one in particular then pursue it - with caution
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