Regardless everything is a leaning experiance,how I use what I have learned is up to me,but I can never change who I am,so if I happen to get a few bruises along the way,well so be it,.....
Your only naked to those you care to show that side of you too.
Sure,to a degree we all have are own defence mechanisims,but sometimes we win,and sometimes we lose,really though what is the loss,almost everything we do has risk.....
Its not you,its me,and I never like to assume I know,so I find it necessary to ask.
Suppose like falling off a bike,you pick yourself up,dust off your kness and get back on,a chance worth taking.
One who is in tune with ones self can't really tho be exposed for who they are as they already know ywho they are.But the draing part of the tell all,only to have to start all over again,sure,it gets tiresome,but as I stated above,somethings in life you just have to take chance.......
For some yes seek and you shall find,and others,a figure of speech,yeah,wait for it to fall in your lap,but not everything that happens to fall unto your lap you have to keep.......
Its all apart of Fall,seasons change just like are mood,but like Fall it makes for change,and change can be a good thing,hold your head high and look at all the pretty colors,life is far more then black and white.
Eventually you stop looking,some find things other then what they where originally looking for,and are more then comfortable with all that they have,sure the welcome of something new is always a option,but fulfillment is filled in many other ways.
Alot of the time when you least expect it,its there waiting for you,you find them,they find you,who know's,but you give it a shot,nothing ventured,nothing gained,and if your lucky you gain a new friendship.
A heart is whats inside,not to be worn on ones sleeve,and bruises,they heal,you just watch where your going next time as not to bump into the same thing over and over again,so you take caution........
Not even a ceramony with vows of your own,a symbol that holds only true to you and the one you love?
Am not saying that a piece of paper constitues the love 2 people share,and your right a piece of paper doesn't prove to anyone what is shared between 2,but you know every now and again you run across a gal who has a vision,no,not ceramony wise,that just wants to be married,it was something she dreamed about as a lil girl.
This coming ofcourse from one who has never been married,so what do I know.......
And WhoTF said anything about a contract,this is not a job detail that requires pricing.....
Like all of the above have stated,lack of communication,and inside you just don't feel the anticipation you did in the earlier part of the relationship,the begining of the end sorta speaks for itself.......
Ok now there was humor to that,but it reminds me of 2 Christmas's ago,and a frined of mine was heading out to make a few visits,upon her arrival home,and works tended to much later,she found her cat in the dryer.The cat must have went to have a lay down on the warm cloths and the daughter,not knowing placed cloths in the dryer,turned it on and went about her way,the cat did not make it,and the mess was terrible....
I had a real tramatic time when our beloved Bonita passed away,in hermemory,or you could say while I was not in my right state of mind I had her tattoo'd on my inner calf.She was apart of are family,and history was shared,her memory lives inside each of my children and I"s heart,and those who loved her miss her as well,her spirit forever remains.
starliteisbrite Forum Posts (7,327)
RE: what would you say if the person you just slept with was bad
Does one not have to be a little bad to be good.............