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RE: Sweard

Ali are you really aware of the differences between the way women are treated in Pakistano culture and a western culture?

Are you aware of the differences placed on the expectations of a married women in Pakistani culture V a western culture?

A western woman would have to be integrating 'the new bounderies' placed on her by the new culture she would be embracing ...

That is a mega step to take with one's life ...

RE: Water Melon Breakfst

Yes! Absolutly!

It contains many minerals like calcium copper magnesium manganese and zinc

Photonutrients like carotene alpha

Electrolytes sodium and potassium

Vitamins B6 E C A thiamin pyridoxine pantothenic acid and niacin

As I found out this Summer when I was making myself fresh fruit smoothies and did some research on the fruit I was using ...

RE: How many ways can you push your woman away?

I'm really good with jokes!!!

You just have to explain the punchline re-a-lly slo-ly!!!

RE: Beautiful woman

Are you talking in the name of ALL guys in the whole wide world Boban? You actually think all guys are turned on by expressionless waxy attractive looking women?

Or do you think it's a woman's character that lights up her features in a way that is attractive?

RE: Beautiful woman

I thought it was rather understood and saying it might detract from the depth of the meaning

RE: Beautiful woman

The kind of guy who would be turned on by a woman's awesome character wouldn't want to "bang her brains out" otherwise there would be no character left to get turned on by

RE: Beautiful woman

RE: Beautiful woman

If you're purring no doubt she'll find you delightful

RE: Beautiful woman

Depending on what he's holding no doubt!

RE: Beautiful woman

Right!! I'm ready!! Notice the glasses!! I wanna see who I'm snogging!!

RE: Beautiful woman

RE: Beautiful woman

why do you guys have to insist in pushing women into a position of competition with her female peers!??

RE: Another suggestion I am going to make to the powers that be on this site helping prevent ...

Awwwww can't wait to see a pic of you both!!!

yes interesting reservations with mixed messages … at least he's not running away like many guys would at the "fear of being tempted" …

love you back

Sorry about

RE: Another suggestion I am going to make to the powers that be on this site helping prevent ...

Thanks for the update on Kitty Skedaddle we need a photo!!!

What about the other "update" that's making your and other
No photos though!!

I hear you … about how people navigate around the site is really a projection of who they are at least some of the time … observing people, how they react, who to, (including myself) can be interesting, entertaining, and sometimes

RE: If after life you came back as a dog, which breed would you be...?

Siberian white and silver Husky

RE: Can a relationship with a narcissist work?

Such an interesting if not a tad confusing vision....
Are you saying that in times of large families there were no narcissists about? No NPD in those days?
Now it also looks like you're saying thay childbirth is the antidote to narcism. So are you saying that the increase you mention in the number of narcissist is largely childless or gay women?

I wonder where narcissistic men fit in your vision? Before and after 'women started having less babies or being gay as I think you are suggesting'....

RE: Another suggestion I am going to make to the powers that be on this site helping prevent ...

These women in their 60's!
I ask you!

RE: Can a relationship with a narcissist work?

Thanks for those very good points....

I only read one positive text about 'narcissists' and it was written by a nacissist man who was seeking therapy and welcoming the help of his girfriend...

And yes of course! Glad you pointed out. Not every hurt person hurts people. As you say some even many choose to be kind

RE: Another suggestion I am going to make to the powers that be on this site helping prevent ...

Thank you!!!
I love women who straighten one another's crowns instead of knocking them off

RE: Wow

deeply upsetting

RE: Can a relationship with a narcissist work?

I believe the nature of a narcissist would be to get together with a really sensitive compassionate person … or so I understood …

RE: Wow

RE: Can a relationship with a narcissist work?

RE: Can a relationship with a narcissist work?

In my experience people with NPD are very hurt and traumatised …

Some wise person once said: Hurt people, hurt people … although not every "hurt person" becomes a narcissist, many very hurt people are … It's a pity because they have beautiful souls and so want to be loved but their human traits most of the time stand between their soul/heart needs and the person who can share that love with them

I read a really well written text by a "recovering narcissist" who was sharing that it was a uphill struggle but only possible because he has an extraordinary girlfriend who calls a spade a spade and won't allow him "his manipulative ways" and he also is in therapy at the same time...

I think it takes an extraordinary person to have a relationship with a narcissist and not be adversely emotionally affected by it

RE: The Best compliments...to give a woman

RE: The Best compliments...to give a woman

'Absolutely stunning woman you are'

Sometimes one receives a compliment or two

RE: LADIES

RE: LADIES

Nope!
I'm not that desperate for a b/friend

RE: Do you believe in free will

So I shared some of my opinion in the 2nd post ...

RE: Do you believe in free will

My apologies for not seeing the reference. Thanks for pointing it out.

I figured that if people inherite ancestral 'intellifence' but are born in an invironment where somehow that intelligence is hindered then we are falling into the nature V nature because the nature of the person is to be intelligent but the lack of nurturing hindered it... and so even though a person is born intelligent they might not benefit from it ...
I'm also thinking that may be wisdom is even more important than academic intelligence and wondering if wisdom can also be an ancestral inheritance like you mention intelligence...

I believe everything is relative, and that includes our will being affected by events beyond our apparent controle when we are children for intance which I suppose would be explained by the law of cause and effect ...

As we become more conscious and aware of that law of cause and effect that shapes our reality we are able to stear our thought patterns into healthier creating tools by beingvaware of the power it has been given by 'intention'.
Whether everything thing I wrote was already pre-ordained at a higher level remains to be demonstrated as far as I'm concerned.

Did I come over all 'teachery'?
I do that sometimes