I never offered to be a moderator, nor would I want to be, but yes, I can be nuetral, and see all sides of the equation. A mods job isn't to pick sides, or play favorites, or bring their own personal views into making their decisions.
Being a member of the forums is different, and I'm on my own side.
Just so you know, I'm not a cowboy, I just liked the hat.
Just be thankful you're not a 40 year old male living in Canada.
NOBODY here wants to date someone my age, either too old, or too young. No kids, never married, must be something wrong, and frankly, I'm starting to believe them...
I've noticed, and just ignore most of them, and don't bother reporting, ever. It's none of my business, so long as they leave me alone, and don't cause any grief.
If they've been booted a number of times, there's usually a good reason for it. First time offenders should get a chance to come back, on probation, and if they offend again, then wave g'bye.
Don't get the idea I'm looking for a job or anything of the sort.
I can be fair and impartial, but there are some things I just couldn't abide by, fake profiles being at the top of the list.
If someone was booted, they should be allowed to apply to the mods to come back, on a trial basis, or probation.
There are other sites that have member moderators, and they seem to work well, as it's not just one mod that has th final say in people getting banned or subjects getting deleted permanently.
It's a joint effort, with an appeal process, which makes it very fair, and there is mod/member interaction, which makes it a lot more friendly.
You might, but I don't. I tend to see the good things in people first, and try to overlook all the "defects" as you put it, and do the same for myself as well.
I don't understand why some people seem to focus on the negatives in people, and in life, before the good things.
Nobody's perfect, and if that's what you're looking for, you'll always be unhappy.
I've never seen height as an issue, mind you there aren't that many women 6 feet tall. Although, it wouldn't bother me if a woman towered over me wearing high heels....I'd even lie down if neccessary.
Not true in my case, I've had the falling dreams before and splatted on to the ground dead, and then looked down at my body. I've had other dreams where I've died in my dream as well, but usually I've woken up just before.
As for changing, or directing your dream, it's called lucid dreaming, and yes, I've experienced that before. I've been told you can learn how to do it, although for me it's just happened on it's own.
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