Ok guys this is how to help you with the 'me too' movement...
Imagine your teenage sister or daughter is out socialising ... Imagine yourself out socialising... if what you're about to do or say to a women would make you feel like smashing the head of the guy who would do or say that same thing to your teenage sister or daughter THAT is where the boundery is. Don't do it! If it's not good enough for your teenage daughter or sister it's not good enough for any woman.
The 'me too' movement is about making boys and men aware of that boundery ...
One of the reasons the number of nuns is declining might very well be because teenage girls and women who get pregnant out of wedlock are no longer incarcerated in nunneries and no longer have their babies taken away from them... Now only become nuns those women who choose to ... That and the fact that religion has lost its hold on people....
My absolutely stunning looking friend at work minding her own business... Guy turns up and says to 'Oh my god you're a knock out!' She looks at him, replies 'then why are you still standing?' And walks off...
The thing is that there are some 'good men' like yourself who don't seem understand that not being interested in getting to know them better doesn't stop them from 'being a good man'... and even if the woman might still be single some months from the moment of saying 'thank you but not interested' doesn't mean the woman should have said yes. Why not respect that a woman knows who she would like to get to know better? It could be because of a gut feeling, or because the guy looks like her brother, or because she would like to be with someone who has more similar interests, or who with same relegion. Whichever it is it doesn't detract from your merit as a person. It's about her and her values. If the values don't match, it's not a judgement. It just is.
Why not just be kindly honest? To yourself and to him? For people who 'don't get it' if every now and then you DO respond in one way or another, they know that if they persist eventually they'll get your attention. All they have to do is 'wait it out' ... A friend once said to me: 'be brutally honest with yourself. Examine which of your actions don't match your wish and words of wanting him to leave you alone. When they are aligned he won't get 'crossed messages' and will disappear out of your life'. The reason for needing to be brutally honest is because of the need to examine if in some twisted weird unacknowledge way, we are flattered by their 'persistence' and so somehow transmit mixed messages they are only too happy to read in they way they prefer.
In my case when I examined my actions, wishes and words and was honest with myself, then the actions wishes words became totally aligned, the guy disappeared out of my life for which I was grateful.
Imagine you are chilling somewhere on a terrace and suddenly before you very eyes appears the woman or man of your dreams. The way they move, the way they smile, the way they look, the sound of their voice...
You have a 30 seconde window to attract their attention with a few words before they disappear round the corner...
What do you do? What do you say?
Men score women's answers Women score men's answers
Scorring system as follows, up to 10 points for originality 10 points for daring 10 points for romance 10 points for entertainment 10 points just because Max. Points added: 50
Take away, up to - 10 points for lack of effort - 10 points just because Max points deducted: 20
Imagine you are chilling somewhere on a terrace and suddenly before you very eyes appears the woman or man of your dreams. The way they move, the way they smile, the way they look, the sound of their voice...
You have a 30 seconde window to attract their attention with a few words before they disappear round the corner...
What do do? What do you say?
Men score women's answers Women score men's answers
Scorring system as follows, up to 10 points for originality 10 points for daring 10 points for romance 10 points for entertainment 10 points just because Max. Points added: 50
Take away, up to - 10 points for lack of effort - 10 points just because Max points deducted: 20
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RE: Hi all
Hi Ali?Did you ever watch the film 'The Matrix'?