The problem appears not to be you. The other person must open up and talk it out. Even with that most likely they will need to change their thinking and their triggers. Most people don't know their mind and how to change it.
I am sad to say that in such cases it is a loosing battle. It would be best to move on with caution.
A sweet lady in my arms with a warm blanket lying on the couch. A warm fireplace with the lights off. As the fire flickers we share the contents of our hearts and sweet chocolate kisses with real kisses for desert.
Most of the time it is a lifetime warranty (not a lifetime gaurantee). It is the lifetime of the product. A warranty to be free of manufacture defects.
But my uncle Buck used to make applejack. Once my mother found some behind the bathtub. It was in a gallon jar...stinking....full of bugs and bees. She handed to him and told him to get rid of it. He did...he skimed the bugs off and drank it. He was a happy camper that night. Played his harmonica, danced until his wooden leg came off. In the morning he was in the yard in his underwear holding his leg asleep. I was just a little boy then. Boy!he was a funny old fart!
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RE: hot and cold.....
The problem appears not to be you. The other person must open up and talk it out. Even with that most likely they will need to change their thinking and their triggers. Most people don't know their mind and how to change it.I am sad to say that in such cases it is a loosing battle. It would be best to move on with caution.