ladydancerdivine Forum Posts (256)

RE: How far would you go

well, how is lima these days, haven't seen it in awhile... i lived in van wert.... ex worked in lima, actually....

from where you are.... hit 75 and go southeast, hit 35 go east.... and in about three hours you'll run iinto no mans land southern ohio

we're hillbillies, you're flatlanders.... and that's life, they don't seem to mix well....

congrats on the meeting with chele...be careful on the roads

RE: How far would you go

an hour or two, because i have had my fair share of long distance relationships, and for me it seems that someone from farther away doesn't understand what things are like in southern OH and WV, i have found a lot of culture clashes.... when i moved to northwestern ohio with my ex... it was like moving to a another planet, there is a lot of difference between northern and southern ohio....

it may not be that way for others.... just my personal experience, i had really set out this time to find myself a country boy.... and i did..... that song "ladies love country boys" is hilariously true, it really makes me smile

btw, found EXACTLY what i've been looking for and found him close to home i think it's important to be true to who you are and not look everywhere necessarily but look in your heart and you will know what you need, once you know what you need and want..... it makes it a bit easier, and you don't waste as much time finding the one who will steal your heart...

RE: throw some prayers my way...well, my little one's way...

i will be praying for you strength and comfort, and for god to control that fever to a reasonable level, i know that he will touch you both and she will have a quick recovery.....

god bless you hun

help me out here, suggestions please

well, he needs all of his friends right now i think.... i think he's starting to feel better

help me out here, suggestions please

duce, you know i love you, and these battles we fight will be over soon...... and then we can experience so much more..... i dream of our forever

(1..2...1,2,3,4)
Shed a tear 'cause I'm missing you
I'm still alright to smile
Girl, I think about you every day now
Was a time when I wasn't sure
But you set my mind at ease
There is no doubt you're in my heart now
Said woman take it slow
It'll work itself out fine
All we need is just a little patience
Said sugar make it slow
And we'll come together fine
All we need is just a little patience
(inhale) Patience...
Ooh, oh, yeah

Sit here on the stairs
'Cause I'd rather be alone
If I can't have you right now, I'll wait dear
Sometimes, I get so tense
But I can't speed up the time
But you know, love, there's one more thing to consider
Said woman take it slow
Things will be just fine
You and I'll just use a little patience
Said sugar take the time
'Cause the lights are shining bright
You and I've got what it takes to make it
We won't fake it, Oh never break it
'Cause I can't take it

...little patience, mm yeah, ooh yeah,
Need a little patience, yeah
Just a little patience, yeah
Some more pati... (ence, yeah)
I've been walking these streets at night
Just trying to get it right (Need some patience, yeah)
It's hard to see with so many around
You know I don't like being stuck in a crowd (Could use some patience, yeah)
And the streets don't change but maybe the name
I ain't got time for the game
'Cause I need you (Patience, yeah)
Yeah, yeah well I need you
Oh, I need you (Take some patience)
Whoa, I need you (Just a little patience is all we need)
Ooh, this ti- me....

help me out here, suggestions please

thanks guys.... knew you'd show up on here.... i'm working on him, don't know if he'll be in tonight.... i appreciate your thoughts for him as i'm sure he does too

help me out here, suggestions please

don't think that will work this time....

help me out here, suggestions please

it's weird to post this, but duce is having a pretty rough night, any ideas on how to cheer him up???

RE: Question for the Young People

well i don't consider myself all that young anymore but i will say that it makes me feel safer that i can get to know someone before meeting them, and i don't go to bars and the like....so it's my best option

RE: how will you bring in the new year;)

i plan on bringing in the new year with my man at my side while doing a whole lot of nothing else.... i believe that what you are doing when you bring in the new year is what you'll be doing all year.... so.... i plan to keep that in mind

RE: has anyone met someone online..................

oooh, touchy, touchy... well, i must say that i have had this experience.... and while it is not always accurate, i believe that it can be.... i have met 7 guys from the internet now, and i actually married two of them, and am currently involved with the latest... i tend to do a great deal of pre-screening and research...i do believe in love at first sight... didn't used to, until it happened to me, i guess... it really depends on how thorough you are about getting to know the other person... but i must say that he certainly didn't admit it right away and neither did i because we both wanted to be cautious and check our feelings...it was really rather scary, but ..... ended up being a positive thing... i think that you have to remain cautious in that kind of situation for awhile, let love prove itself and really pay attention to what you do or do not have in common....

RE: what is it that

i tend to agree with duce.... i have left up to a $20 tip, but it was for exceptional service... and generally if i'm not happy i leave 2 cents... just so they know i didn't forget... i think there is a delicate balance of good service and bugging someone to death.... the glasses should be full, they should be conversational if you try to talk to them and they should leave you alone... i like to NOT notice them or need them because they anticipate... if they don't do that or i find them rude, well, they will be very unhappy... i used to go to once particular place regularly and if we got one certain server they alway ot atleast $5, but if someone else got us and they were rude, they got .02 cents.... they eventually caught on.

RE: does it ever get better

you know, from experience i will say a little about my experience...

i very much loved my husband and did just about anything i could for him to make him happy. when we seperated through no fault of my own, i wanted to die and was beginning to give up hope.... thought i would never be able to trust or love again... i felt like it was hopeless and that i would never be able to hold my head up or stop crying after i realized everything that he had done or said was a lie.....the only thing keeping me alive was my children

then one day, i came here.... and i will tell you that i was very frightened when i met duce, but after a couple of hours things changed, and i became true to myself for the first time in my life.... and now, i have never loved so deeply and so completely in my entire life, he makes me forget everything that has happened in the past and look forward to the hope that is in tomorrow.... with him it is like i have never been touched, never kissed, and never loved, until we met.... i feel like my life is starting over again....

so i will say that sometimes when you have a broken heart it will lead you to be able to love in a way that you never imagined possible and you will find yourself complete for the first time in your life when you find the one that touches your heart.... it's out there, it just takes some patience, no matter how much your heart gets broken, it only makes you able to love more....

RE: Suggestion - No More Bush/War Threads

thanks for the encouragement i try to never be rude and disrespectful, it's just not me.... keep your chin up

RE: Suggestion - No More Bush/War Threads

you know i was probably your greatest opposition and i'm playing nice... maybe you should calm down a bit.... we're all here to make friends not enemies... just let that comment slide off of your back, it will do you some good

RE: Impossible to fail

anything, well realistically, i would buy cash for a very large home... need one, and start my business, have someone else run it... and spend my time with my family and those that i dearly love, never having to worry about money, the food in our tummies o the clothes on our backs...romantic notion i suppose

RE: Suggestion - No More Bush/War Threads

don't let it get to you, i don't know if they were specifically talking about you, but outside of that thread you don't need to defend yourself.... and i don't either

RE: Suggestion - No More Bush/War Threads

why thank you, i appreciate the understanding

random poetry

yes you are lucky.. thanks for noticing

random poetry

any other guesses, ??????????? hmmm.....

come on guys, help keep this thread up front so he sees it when he comes home doesn't everyone know by now....

RE: Let's Debate.....Impeach George W. Bush.

i must say i didn't find out any useful info on that website, i'm sad to say and i can't afford to buy a book right now.... so maybe you could give me some specifics, besides who commissioned the book.... doesn't that matter???

random poetry

thanks for the thoughts there beachfarmer.... i want to do a poll for those who read this, all you lovely spectators out there

who knows who this little poem is for????
i wanna see how many people have been paying attention

what can i say our talks got cut up a lot today due to kids and work
i miss him terribly, desperately.....

RE: What is the difference between a marriage and a comittment?

that's a nice thought, but i think that a lot of people are missing out on true love.... it doesn't always work out even if you think you do everything right... maybe the deep connection and unity that couples like that tend to have is what it takes....

RE: What is the difference between a marriage and a comittment?

yeah, what she said, i don't think she's as tired as i am

random poetry

i sit here all alone,
chatting away
and yet my thoughts are lost with you
hoping you had a good day
my mind races with words that we've said
hoping for each moment
that i can spend with you
longing for your touch,
it drives me insane
as my mind begins to quake
i cannot help but think of you
waiting for the next time
that i can hear your voice
i stay up late
avoiding sleep
just for a moment with you
you are my everything
my light and my joy
i cannot wait, my darling
to finally be yours
each moment i'm awake
i long for you

RE: What is the difference between a marriage and a comittment?

you know there needs to be more discussion and time spent on the relationship than on wedding plans, weddings are highly overrated, i've made up my mind about a lot of things concerning weddings.... i've had two, i can afford to not care about much... and sometimes even with a lot of pre marital counseling things can fail....

i have done marriage counseling and it's scary sometimes to talk with people and see the love in their eyes and know that is not how you feel about your own husband, i'm just glad that situation has changed.... for me

and now i know what they must have been feeling for eachother...

RE: What is the difference between a marriage and a comittment?

you know what is scary, i think that it's actually a fact statistically that there is more divorce in people in the church than anywhere else??? just thought that was a sucky fact

RE: What is the difference between a marriage and a comittment?

well, you know... the paper doesn't make it morally sanctioned but the vows before god certainly do.... i want things to be right in the eyes of god, the rings, well that is a sign of the committment and adoration towards eachother

RE: Would you go on a date

we don't use stones, we have much more powerful weaponry... and normally it can't be traced

RE: What is the difference between a marriage and a comittment?

i think it mostly is paperwork that is the difference, and that a lot of times, the end goal is understood in relationships.... i still want paperwork though, i have to admit, for moral reasons.... i want it to be right in the eyes of God and i guess i see it as a sign that you both would work through it regardless of what comes along, a sign of complete committment to eachother.... a dedication to eachother and eachothers family..... so the difference, i guess is paperwork, and jewelry, but those things are signs of the committment to eachother