One of my best female friends admits that she went for guys that did not treat her well, and was mean to the guys that did. I know guys that have done this as well.
But it is funny how folks respond to an intimate question, jokes, innuendos, questioning the character of the person asking the question (PO). I am gaining some experience on this site, but it is still odd that people don't answer the question that is posed. Too telling I suppose.
I here you loud and clear. However, my life is busy and complicated enough. Actually, it is more than that. I don't mess around with women who are already in a relationship. Not my style and never will be.
This is odd I know, but we are in love with one another, but know it can't happen. Beyond that, we have become incredible friends. It is funny how you have to experience something like this before you can accept it in another person.
I was dating a woman four months ago (for about three months). She was a wonderful woman, and we still chat, but she started falling in love, and I did not. I ended it because it is not right to lead someone on, just because you are lonely.
I am good at my job, own a house, and have my daughter every other week, for a week at a time. My life is busy, and I am lonely. I know I am not the only one.
But the things I value are being in a relationship, having someone run their fingers through your hair at the end of the day, doing the same for them, having a cuddle on the couch while watching a movie, spooning, kissing and love-making. There is no other feeling in the world like waking up and pulling a warm body into your arms.
How do others deal with this loneliness? I know it is better to be alone than to live a lie, but d@mn it sucks!
It is he same with me and my friend. We love each other to death, but the work thing gets in the way. We have both told one aother about how we feel. She is amazing. I just don't know if I want to risk having a relationship with her and risk losing the best friend of my life.
See, it was this kind of thing that I was trying to get to the other night. I feel thankful every time I read a note from you lovely ladies, saying you would just like to give a hug. In my mind and experience, that is where it all starts.
RE: pretty lady only or a nice lady with a nice mind?
One of my best female friends admits that she went for guys that did not treat her well, and was mean to the guys that did. I know guys that have done this as well.Any thoughts?