I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.
Well I guess the first thing would be to give up on these sites.
Deeply in love. It has to do with spontaeity at first. Flowers for no reason, passionate kisses, full body massages, and seeing someone's soul through their eyes.
Honesty, integrity and loving someone, with all their bumps and bruises. Accepting that we all have a past at his age. For me it is about the physical contact, holding hands, spooning and hugging. I will probably get slammed for saying these things, but I miss the physical contact the most.
1. You find someone that you don't know, to be physically attractive, and then pursue it (human nature).
2. You get to know that attractive person, and realize they don't possess the beauty from within.
3. You get to know someone, who it not necessarily someone that your would initially find physically attractive, but get to know their beauty, and feel both.
I have a friend, and his wife is not attractive. However, once you get to know her, her beauty shines from within, and she is one of the most attractive people that I know.
People are just so afraid to be themselves. I am not looking for a pat response. Des, well he sweet talks the ladies. But there is so much more to talk about.
I suppose I am a-typical when it comes to this stuff.
I don't get it, and I am being sincere. When engaging in the King of the Indoor Sports, I get as much satisfaction out of pleasing my partner as I do getting pleased myself. Is this uncommon, seriously.
Thanks for all of the responses folks, and I agree that you need to put some energy into it to get the reward. It just seems like you have to put an awful lot of energy into it, because so many people have been burned.
This guy has the guts to say all the things that should be said if you are truly on here to meet someone, or, at the very least, be kind to another human being!
These sites have primarily been messed up by guys who are; married; immature; dishonest; liars; dogs; and have about as much sense of themselves as an amoeba!
It really screws up the process for guys like me (and many others) that just want to have a conversation that is respectful and with integrity.
It now takes so much time to even get a fun response from a woman, that it is not worth the time. It is discouraging to say the least, that I have to spend hours upon hours on this (or any other site), just to have a simple and innoculous conversation.
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Ahh, the hugs, they are the things that make me keep going on. So much comes from an innocent hug and kiss!