Always looked after my self even when married. Sometime it a pain being so self sufficient. Having to look after your self and other people. However i don't know if i could give it up to any else
Life is what you make it. Its about using luck when appears. Shrugging off bad luck and getting on with life and not wallowing in self pity.
One of my best friends is an inspiration to me. She live in Belfast in the trouble is catholic married a solider. Her brother was killed by a random snipper her father died of a heart attack brought on by his death. Her husband was shot in front of her when she was out shopping with her toddle daughter. Yet there is no bittiness in her she has gone on to bring up two lovely children she was also pregnant at the time. She is one of the funniest kindest woman i have ever know.
So i know no matter what live throws at me if she can survive And still be one of the nicest human being i know that so can i
A friend of mine brought up his son on his own with family support . The child mother walked out when the boy was 10 month old the no contact. Then when the lad was 5yrs old she walks back in wants access then full custody. My friend looses custody in the court lad goes to live with a mother he hardly know. Misses his dad his grandmother and aunties and uncles all of whom have been there since he was a baby.
Six month later the boy is back with his dad mother goes walk about again. All that upset because some judge thinks mother make the best parents the systems mad.
My dark side usually shows up in my posts. When i have a rant and moan about things which don't really matter except to me. I'm afraid what you read is what you get. Lump it or leave it.
PILIPALA Forum Posts (4,804)
RE: Ann
Heloo to everyone