Hm ... the question of What we do deserve is a tad dim. We all have imperfect sides. That's typical for every human being. And anyone who says opposite ... Lies.
So what are your dark sides? .... that you trying to hide from your potential partner?
Konigsberg: enthused by Detente thread "Expectations" Hm ... the question of What we do deserve is a tad dim. We all have imperfect sides. That's typical for every human being. And anyone who says opposite ... Lies.
So what are your dark sides? .... that you trying to hide from your potential partner? ps I know this thread is already dead
Welcome to the Dark Side. My Dark side was visible in my eye...no longer so....nothing and nobody is safe!
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
My dark side usually shows up in my posts. When i have a rant and moan about things which don't really matter except to me. I'm afraid what you read is what you get. Lump it or leave it.
bajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados3,724 posts
Konigsberg: enthused by Detente thread "Expectations" Hm ... the question of What we do deserve is a tad dim. We all have imperfect sides. That's typical for every human being. And anyone who says opposite ... Lies.
So what are your dark sides? .... that you trying to hide from your potential partner? ps I know this thread is already dead
Good morning Lady K.
My dark and light sides are the same characteristics, when taken to extremes - which happens rarely nowadays- the very things that are my assets become the most annoying, destructive qualities I have.
The trick for me has been learning to take full responsibility for who and what I am and trying to keep thingd in proportion.
PILIPALA: If being brave is being true to ones self then I'm brave. But to tell the truth it been a long road to get to where i am now. I like my self warts and all after all i' am human. If anyone wants to know me they should read my profile which a friend wrote for me its pretty honest
Being brave to ourselves is not a difficult job .... Being brave to tell the truth about yourself to others(especially to those we do love) .... not everyone are brave enough in this department.
It is so easy to keep it inside and wait what's going to happen in a future.
bajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados3,724 posts
Konigsberg: the very things that are my assets become the most annoying, destructive qualities I have
Good morning Lady B
Could you, elaborate a wee on * assets*,please ?
Always the tough questions!
I have to run right now, meeting in half an hour, but I'll be back this evening!
Here's one, the fact that I always keep my promises, and in fact will not make one unless I am sure that barring death and dismemberment i can keep it, makes me very unforgiving when others do not do the same.
I have to run right now, meeting in half an hour, but I'll be back this evening!
Here's one, the fact that I always keep my promises, and in fact will not make one unless I am sure that barring death and dismemberment i can keep it, makes me very unforgiving when others do not do the same.
Good one .... I have the same attitude ... What the point to give empty promisses. I call those people Dreamers.
Perhaps we are practical individuals, Lady B.
Have fun at meeting .... i'm gone to do stuff too .
also my fear- that it has been so long i wouldnt know how to share my life
but i do really well at sharing my thots and feelings partly because it lessens their power so i guess the important part would be to listen well and you would know me-no surprises
other than that i used up my darkness long ago and have been too close to death too many times so i believe in carefully choosing my life now and living as is happy and right
mindfful: my assessment of myself is the same as Bajan's
also my fear- that it has been so long i wouldnt know how to share my life
but i do really well at sharing my thots and feelings partly because it lessens their power so i guess the important part would be to listen well and you would know me-no surprises
other than that i used up my darkness long ago and have been too close to death too many times so i believe in carefully choosing my life now and living as is happy and right
hi koni
Carpe Diem then Elena .....
"that it has been so long i wouldnt know how to share my life" .... this sounds a wee sad, like a lost child in a woods of life decisions ... Maybe all you need just to relax and let Fate to Decide?
"that it has been so long i wouldnt know how to share my life" .... this sounds a wee sad, like a lost child in a woods of life decisions ... Maybe all you need just to relax and let Fate to Decide?
that is in a small part part of the process
one cant overcome something unless they are first aware of it so im doing ok...
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Hm ... the question of What we do deserve is a tad dim. We all have imperfect sides. That's typical for every human being. And anyone who says opposite ... Lies.
So what are your dark sides? .... that you trying to hide from your potential partner?
ps I know this thread is already dead