I have to say it surprises me greatly that you feel this way.
You must realise that without one you will actually die but not without the other.
I believe we choose to fall in love or in some cases not to fall in love. I was in love once, yes by choice, it didnt work out and I was devastated. That was 9 years ago and I have choosen not to fall in love again. It simply is not worth it.
I dont know for sure of course, but perhaps you came to the wrong conclusion? Your posts have never been offensive to anyone so why would anyone think that someone had left because of you?
For some it is. I was completely snowed in yesterday so put on my wellies and walked to work, took me an hour and ten minutes but I actually enjoyed it. Was amazed by the amount of people who live a lot closer than me who didnt come in.
Had great fun last night with the kids building snowmen.
Since I married in 1984 I have only been out of work for 1 year, that was after my 3rd child was born and I thought I would never get back to work. Regardless of my financial situation hope to always work.
RE: Masculine gifts
Dont know who that question is aimed at but I would cook whatever his fav dish was and serve it in lingerie in his fav colour, and my heels