freominx Forum Posts (276)

old flames

yeah, well I've been alone for a very long time, years and years in fact, maybe I should take the plunge

old flames

miss socialite, it appears you know me well hahaha

old flames

Wysterious, yeah I wonder if I should still meet up with him, then maybe he will realise I am not the "wild, skinny, free thinking little minx he met back then", though secretly I am still all those things. Maybe the Notebook movie is in the back of my mind, making me think there may be someone out there for ME

old flames

Now that I think back, he was always a gentleman at the ripe old age of 18, and he did treat me very well, just that I was still very immature and wild back then, and I should have treated him better, which is why I am wondering what I ever "did" for him for him to remember me for so long and seek me out? Let's put it this way, if I had met him NOW, he being what he WAS, I would have appreciated him a lot more now that I have life experience blah blah

old flames

a guy I went out with for 3 minutes, about 34 years ago has been trying to contact me for the past few years. Now, weirdly I became FB friends with a person who lives in the country town where me and this guy met and "went out" for 3 minutes
She and her hubby know him cos he still lives there and to cut a long story short, they were passing on messages to me from him. I eventually gave them my phone no. to pass on, not thinking too much of it, and he phones me yesterday morning! I was a bit stunned and we only talked for about 10 mins, but he definitely wants to catch up and remembers everything about me and told me he has been searching for me for years, (since his divorce). He still sounds the same haha, but I am finding it difficult to conceive how he can be holding a torch for this long, considering it was definitely nothing serious, both he and I were only around 18y.o. at the time, and I am definitely now not quite as "free" thinking as I was back then. Suggestions peoples, remembering he still lives in the country and I am a city slicker

RE: ur choice of alcahol

Wysterious, that's because they have you in a vulnerable position

RE: ur choice of alcahol

haha, I also got horrendously drunk on Blackberry Nip, however I was 15y.o. at the time, threw up all over my bedroom, the parents were not impressed

I have always preferred beer, so am a cheap drunk, however for special occasions, can be partial to a good wine.

Anyone awake?

hahaha, seems this place closes down very early

Anyone awake?

I am bored!

RE: Shopping

yes I do, he has already called me "intimidating"

RE: Shopping

what are you on about normalguy?

RE: Shopping

you heard NOTHING Billy

RE: Shopping

it's freominx, NOT free mix hahaha

RE: Shopping

lots of stuff, only just returned from holiday in Bali a week ago

RE: Meeting someone at a pub vs an online date, which do you prefer?

normalguy68.............. "bong" party nights lol, could be interesting hahaha

RE: What do you hate about singles?

yep have noticed that Wysterious. I am 52 and on all the other sites have had all these 20 something guys wanting an older woman ffs! Have had one experience on here though, where I got quite chummy with a lovely looking man, who claimed he was a widow. However, he only wanted to talk via email, and only in the mornings, when I enquired why he couldn't talk at night, I never heard from him again................ guess he was married and looking for a bit of extra on the side

RE: What do you hate about singles?

thanks Martia, really appreciate your post. This is a really good site to network, most of the others I have joined over the years have had no actual forum, they are just meat markets which turned me off for quite a while.

RE: What do you hate about singles?

BAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RE: What do you hate about singles?

yes normalguy68, so you still think I am selfish and self centred?

RE: What do you hate about singles?

he is in another State, where I hope he will stay.

RE: What do you hate about singles?

well my ex was totally abusive, mentally and physically, I divorced him in 1994, my two now adult children haven't seen him since they were 8 and 4y.o., they never have and even now don't want anything to do with him. After our divorce, he spent 8 years in jail for attempted murder, and for quite a few years after our divorce, me and the kids were in hiding. Even now he is out of jail, and tried contacting me through Facebook, I get scared, as he was affiliated with the Bandidos. Apparently his violence was all my fault, but he has never paid child support, and never shown an interest in his kids, apparently THEY have to contact him! Hence my reservations regarding starting any new relationships ever since.

RE: What do you hate about singles?

even my single friends don't have dates lol

Bali - anyone suggest

yep, we have a day planned for Ubud area, it is so beautiful up there!

Bali - anyone suggest

haha, NO, been looking forward to this holiday for months now, and too much money has been spent for accommodation, flight etc., will definitely come to the next meet though.

Bali - anyone suggest

some NEED TO GO TO bars for 4 women who are intent on having a great girls week in Bali?

RE: What do you like about being single?

The only person I have to answer to is myself haha, (my adults kids are now used to me making decisions without their consent).

so, who here is disallusioned by internet communications?

I have only met up with one man during the past 7 years, how embarrassment , is it really worth it?

RE: How do you tell a single from a non-single?

can't afford them atm, so won't find out

RE: How do you tell a single from a non-single?

can't afford them atm, so won't find out

RE: How do you tell a single from a non-single?

hey, who can afford bananas, they were $11 a kilo yesterday!!