Love is UNCONDITIONAL. It's a desire to achieve success within a relationship at any costs. Even if you are blinded by many things. Love is the will to progress and learn about your partner in ways that no one elses knows. Love is the want to do for the other without regret or conditions Love is the unspoken words that only you and your partner understand Love is the willingness to continue even when things suck Love is the spirit that both of people hold that only you know about Love is the internal understanding of your partner's character Love is the moments of speechless stares Love is the pain felt when your partner is hurting Love is the warmth felt when your partner is contented Love is the understanding of your partners needs without asking Love is the knowledge that only you and your partner hold about each other Love is the distance between two people that bring you together Love is knowing that despite is all - there is a sense of full comprehension about your partner without the need to express it Love is a soul felt, heart felt desire to help in times of need without being told or asked Love is knowing when to be there and when to leave alone Love is not overdoing or overstating your position Love is not reminding or convincing of your needs or wants Love is just being there without an overbearing presence Love is knowing when to speak and when to shut up Love is the smile you hold in your heart, not on your face Love is pure, kind, gentle, unspoken, time, effortless, painful at times, careless at others, yet always always there.
Yeah well I spent most of my life, minimizing them with lip liner and now come to realize.......screw it!! May as well show what ya got!! Most like them so can't I?!! LOL
A man with a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone. Thanks Still...genuinely good person with issues and problems like the rest of us and yes it is up to the individual to identify or be helped to identify their condition and do what is necessary to alleviate some of the stresses of the condition. To allow internal calm which will domino onto the people in your life that love you dearly.
BB - I lived with a person who was bipolar, he was a wonderful human being and I loved him with all my being. But living under his roof was an emotional mess due to his illness. He refused to admit he had a disorder so I would try to give him vitamins and stuff to help him alleviate the "edge" he had on a daily basis. I spent 5 years walking on egg shells with him. I was constantly second guessing myself in what I said and how I said it because I did not want to set him off. This made things and life very difficult for the both of us as well as my children. Why did I stay?..............he was a good man and loved him to no end.
I see nothing wrong with your direct information - you are straight to the point.
Good for you and good luck!!
Don't let no one tell you that you should change it!! Those that appreciate your honesty will communicate with you - those that don't..........THEIR ISSUE not YOURS!
Thank you for your comment and once again - I will state that my initial post was not veered towards disorders - it was veered towards plain and simple rotten people.
I am aware of the complications and med doses and therapeutic issues with many disorders. We have turned this into a disorder post, which was not the intent of my statement.
Again - my initial post was not veered towards "mentally ill" individuals - it was veered towards miserable people per se. Because this world is filled with just rotten people who are out to ensure everyone around them know it.
I do not have any credentials but I do have 3 years of university - working on my degree. Ruffling feathers? I attempt to explain my statements and hope that even if people do not agree - they will note it and stick to the point of the issue - but sadly enough - a few seems to like the personal attacks on me. Which I am handling!!
Amen to you girl......I know I lived with someone with such disorder - bipolar - it wasn't pretty and you are correct - this is bigger than just medication - it is a matter of proper process to help this individual with their disorder. My initial post was not veered towards anyone with a "mental disorder" per se.......it was veered towards people who are just plain and simply miserable and want the world to know it and don't care.
Thank you for the information and the knowledge gained from this - I did study this disorder in depth and know just how difficult it is to fit in the world around them.
Medication - if given the proper dose and taken regularly as it should will alleviate the misery and deep tension within. Hence make the life of the person a better place to reside and make the people around that person less tense.
Thank you for your comment - glad to see you have found what makes you smile. You are correct, deeply rooted problems are more common then most would think. People with such issues are out with a vengeance and its very sad for most that have to bear the wounds of their strike.
They are called medical conditions because it is a treatable disorder. Bipolar or unipolar are both treatable with medication. There is no need for the world to see your misery - unless you can't help it - like the Tsumani/Earthquake in Japan.
What makes you think I think I'm better than you? The fact that maybe I learned a few lessons in life - through turmoil and pain, the fact that I have lived heartache and hurt, the fact that I have been through 2 break ups and managed to still stand on my own two feet, the fact that I gave up on living for everyone else and started thinking of me for a change, the fact that I have been hurt and have hurt, the fact that I am doing all I can to better myself as an individual and better the lives of my children...........????
Whats that??? Did you say...........wait........NOT YOU TOO!!!!!!!!
It is clear that the negativity that has come out of a very honest post - sharing positive - most insulting comments have been from women. At least men have a sense of being less direct and more to the point then most of the women on this thread.
I have ZERO issues with making your viewpoint, I have issues with taking something very positive and turning it into a VERY negative outlook.
This has obviously touched more sore spots on alot of the women on here that they must show such negativity towards it.
If you go back to the original thread and read it AGAIN - please advise who and what I have attacked?
Everyone has a viewpoint - if I agree or not - alot of the women on this thread have made this a very personal attack - for what reason - I'm still unclear. If what I stated does not reflect you or your viewpoint - just say so - do not attach a derogatory comment towards me - because it doesnt reflect who you are as an individual.
But as usual - Pack Attack is typical with lonely women who have nothing better to do but try to find the bad in good!!.......I must add that this is in real life too - not only over threads on the computer.
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Love it..........wowwww - Now that means something!!!