ClearlyStated Forum Posts (489)

RE: parable

Thanks for that.......It's beautiful

What's your Type??

See my problem with students is that I don't want to have to teach them.......you best know what you're doing....otherwise......NEXT......

RE: how would you tell to your date that he has a voguer on his/her left face?

THATS what I said...........

RE: Finally threw the line out to a guy--SOS advice please!

Well, take it as it comes, don't overeact dont expect too much....he obviously is interested as well (I think) become friends, see where he stands and see what his angle is as well. Maybe he is sitting there with the same attitude as you. Or maybe he is seeing it as a possibility of a friendship. Either way Ro......I highly doubt you will lose out on this one. What's the worse thing that can happen - he is not interested in intimacy but would love a friendship!!! Just relax and let things do what they need to....

RE: 1st Impressions

I tend to agree.....my rule of thumb is fairly simple - present myself as I am in everyday life and hope he does the same.

If all works then wonderful, if not..........NEXT!!!!

RE: what are the three main elements of a successful relationship ?

RESPECT,TRUST & COMMUNICATION..........but you must have all 3, if you miss one, you messed up the process.....

RE: Ok, u talked me into it. But be warned, my humor pretty corny.

RE: does the truth pervail

I wrote this at a very trying time in my life......I was fighting for custody of my son because I moved 3 hours away from my ex.......
In everything you do in life, let it be good, or bad! Doesnt matter!! The truth shall always prevail.

They will attempt to lie,steal,hack,and deceive to get what they want and they feel they have accomplished their goal.

But in the eyes of GOD, HE sees the truth and the meanings like no one could possibily ever see.

This means that the wicked heart and deceptive ways will always assume awards but in the end - they will regret,wish, and know that their purpose was wrong.

They must live with themselves and all they have done for the rest of their lives. But depending on the person or the people the deception has been attempted - these people know and see that the deceivers are being guided and directed but a strength greater than their own. And the strength of their guidance is fully aware of their doings, but the ultimate deception is only with the person who brought it forth in the first place.

I am a woman of truth and honesty - I have and always will be - my purpose is always in the best interest of the people I love and I know that TRUTH takes longer to be brought forth - once the lies are buried, there is only one thing left for the person who brought it forth - the overwhelming feeling of guilt and pain..

How sad that people are so calis and unmoralistic and let the anger take over the truth.

A mother's love - there is no other love !!! That is the bottom line.!!!
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RE: does the truth pervail

YESSSSSSSSSS Stand up with integrity for what you feel is right!!
The truth always wins out - actually I wrote something on this.....let me go get it and post it ok!!!

A woman's Worth......If only we could achieve this!!!

Wowwwwwww Thank you sooooooo much, truly appreciate it - the compliment is well take and heartfelt....

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

NOOOOOOOOOOOO Mary.......please tell me you're kidding!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOO

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

I can't stand stingy men because I'm not a stingy woman....I will buy you a meal or a drink and I expect you to do the same for me!! That is pretty much the bottom line.

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

Wowwwww good thing you didn't have low self esteem....

A woman's Worth......If only we could achieve this!!!

Ok..........so that means????

A woman's Worth......If only we could achieve this!!!

Wowwwwwww Thank you and No I have not published or tried to. I do have many different writings on life and living, people and pain, good and funny. I don't always write, but when I do, it comes from within.

Thank you for the wonderful compliment. Much appreciated

RE: I need a hug so much right now

Sweetheart, let me tell you something............you are you and be happy with you........if HE comes along and wants to be with YOU then good for you and HIM and if not you will still be you - sweet,kind and loving.........DONT let the misguidance of a DATE tear down who you are and what you will be ........Just LIVE, be YOU and be HAPPY........someone comes along.........GREAT, if not.........no biggie.......you're still cool and you're still YOU!!!

RE: in reality,are u better looking than ur profile photo or worse?

where do you come up with this???

RE: I need a hug so much right now

Whatever it is...........this TOO shall pass!!!!

RE: do you say "you're welcome" loudly when someone doesn't say "thank you"?

I would have slapped u upside your head!!!!

RE: do you say "you're welcome" loudly when someone doesn't say "thank you"?

Absolutely - I have worked in customer service for over 20 years.......there are enough rude people in this world......if someone doesnt say thank you - you damn right I'm going to say YOUR WELCOME!!

RE: No emotional baggage pls ...

And the people that comment about not wanting GAMES and GAME playing are usually the BIGGEST game players around - This is what I have learned anyhow!!

RE: A Tornado Is In Front Of You

Run Forest.........RUNNNNNNNNN!!!!

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

By golie.........I think I got one..........ok well maybe not - I think it says more about me then the date...... Anyways.......he picks me up at my house, we drive to this cozy, sporty type bar restaurant, we sit down and order our food. He, then looks at the waitress and asks if she could turn up the big screen TV because the hockey game is just about to start....... Hmmmmmmmm not sure but I think maybe I smelt funny..... ........we ate and he watched the game on the big screen........

Men versus Women after break up!!

Well in my opinion - not academically driven- a cold blooded killer to me is a psychopath(now called a sociopath) someone who has no empathy or compassion. Someone who is completely narcissistic to the highest level. Someone who consider no one else feelings unless it benefits them in the end. These type of people tend to be very social to their own benefit, they will fit into crowd and society well. Or they will be so withdrawn from society yet still able to function amongst it to their own benefit. It's about their needs and desires, let them be killing,hurting,raping,stealing,lying, etc.....doesn't matter - there are sociopaths amongst us everywhere. We work with them, we live amongst them, we interact with them in everyday society. Doesn't mean they are all killers, because they are not. Losing ones grip on reality? For a sociopath - THEIR REALITY is the ONLY reality.......

RE: No emotional baggage pls ...

One of the BEST rants I have heard so far...........CHEERS TO YOU MY FRIEND!!!

RE: No emotional baggage pls ...

Wowwwwwwwww Beautiful song......Thank you for that!!!

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

Must have been REALLY TIGHT!!!

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

You know its funny you should bring this up, but when I met my husband back in the late 80s - I asked him what was the one thing that made him so attracted to me - he answered - Besides the fact that you are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen - (OK had to put some humour in this) no no really he said that I was the first girl that ever bought him a drink - I was the first girl to ever pull my money out to buy HIM something!!!

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

I'm heading home but I will comment on this later.......

RE: What is the weirdest thing some one you have dated has done?

Georgia???? I thought they landed in North Bay.........