attachment is the scary part... you know that if "it" keeps going that you will become attached/used to the idea of this person in your life, perhaps to the point that part of your happiness depends on them...
the last movie i watched was x-men @ the drive-in.. with a couple of friends and i ate too much rocky road ice cream and got sick.. BUT IT WAS AWESOME!
i just want a good CHRISTIAN man, thats taller than me. i really don't have pre-set regulations on how to judge a good man.. i'm going to leave it to him to prove to me that he deserves me in the best way that he can preferably with actions, as those are the things that last a lifetime.
we all have different talents, it would be a bonus if my future life partner could me make laugh and keep things dynamic.
my main goal in life growing up was to meet mr right at a really young age (as my sisters did~15) and get married (they married by 18), have 4+ kids and live outside of a medium sized city, kind of like out in the country, but somewhere near mountains or some great spectacular natural setting. i also want a dog, a family dog, like a lab or golden retriever. i'm not really a fan of new houses or larger ones, but no matter what, they have to have a huge backyard.. room for the kids to play, room for fruit trees and swings and to camp out there with the kids even on a school night. i wanted to be a stay home mom, not just to spend time with my kids, home school them, look after all the wonderful aspects of "home", but to enrich the life of my kids and husband by providing them with the most love and attentions that any person could ever give them in a lifetime as a mother and as a wife.
seeing as the plan is not really working out.. i've pretty much dedicated myself to working on the other lil things that make me happy like learning, art, and working toward being my own boss at a job that i love. my best friend and i put the plan to test by starting our own company, and so far so good. we love the freedom when it comes to decisions, we love the hours, we love everything about it. once we start making income, it'll be even more exciting but in the long run only a BONUS.. bc we're keeping our goals small and for the moment calling it our "pet project".
i got a couple more credits to finish to get my honors degree from university, but i just don't have the passion for it... call me whatever you want, but passion is what drives me... this sept comming up i'm starting a welding apprenticeship in order to continue on with trying to be my own boss... i sketch a lot of designs and i have very unique ways of seeing nature and people.. and i express it by creating art... so the plan is to somehow incorporate my art into welding metals.. i've talked to a few friends who are in the landscape business and they are willing to partner up (once i'm ready) so that i can make metal works for landscapes. i'm really excited about this.. but since money is the issue, i'm continuing to receive diving instruction in order to find a high paying job in the under water welding profession once i'm done my apprenticeship.
if love where to come into my life at this point... i guess that would be plan *x*.. the real unknown.. all i know is that if i find *IT*.. then i'll have to make some decisions on some of these temporary things, and i'd be more than happy to do so at that point.
its amazing how humans have a tendency to complicate all that we touch, but simply by attemting to brake that cycle we can become something unhuman.. brutally honest
keep it simple, if you feel IT (love) say it. if someone is your life, say it.
***if there are some complications to your love, add small print, but make sure to READ IT OUT LOUD AND CLEAR!
welcome, i'm sure you both (trish and sweetnsassy2) will find what you are looking for... there are some very nice people on here... and not to mention FUN!
yes i know it's taken me a while to properly introduce myself, but i'm a lil shy at first
i've been here about... 3 weeks now.. and recently i've been spending more time on here because i'm trying to get my company started and find myself doing research online a lot and not to mention distracted as you can see.
i guess i'm here to have fun and meet cool people!...and perhaps that other lost half
i grew up on a sugar cane factory so... everything had too much sugar.. i remember having bread that was so sweet and pretty much drenched in sugar and then having coffee and it just tasted better if i didn't put any sugar... (i was about 3 when i started drinking coffee)..
i guess i just haven't been able to let go of the habbit.. i love it that way!
i've always dated older men, but lately i almost feel inclined to date someone closer to my age as i would like to have more things and experiences in common with them.. not to mention, fears, doubts..
plus i want someone a bit more care free, who doesn't think too serious of life...
but still i have yet to find someone with some or all of those characteristics.
i rather like the thought of being with someone who has an overall nice face to look at (which includes nice smile and teet), and i'm afraid that most women are like that... and most truthful men will agree that they are the same too. i know it makes some ppl feel nice to say very nice things, but we're all looking for someone whom we find rather attractive (atleast in our eyes).
for her own self-esteem she should see a good dentist, they can do wonderful things and probably leave her looking her bestest!
HMM.. i think i'm gonna do the bar hopping thing with my buddies for fri AND sat...
london is a lil city, but during the academic year (since we have a college and university) the bars get pretty packed (think: sardine can).. anyhow during the summer the damn students are all gone.. woo hoo! so us townies can go to about 15 different bars in a span of 3 hours!
should be fun!.. then i'm gonna come home and write some sad poetry about the happenings of the night.. and eat lots of rockey road ice cream
MsVoltri Forum Posts (59)
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RE: Whitby Get-Together November 11
wow, this sounds like a party for sure.. i'm in london, and i'll see what i can do to come out ;)thanks for the invite for sure!