As the decor, location, desirability affects the taste sensations experienced with menu choices in a restaurant, so too the "woman", her essence, affects the taste scale. That being said, a desirable woman tastes great all over and the "Best Before" date can be quite flexible.......
Look in the mirror, look yourself in the eyes and tell Yourself what You posted. Pretend You really LIKE Yourself, that You are Your Best Friend.........Honestly now...What do You Think...tell Your best friend that......
There is a tendency to say we are the person we would like to be. That perception thing, again. Perception is a choice, not a fact! Much more comfy to see what we're looking for and to overlook what we don't want to see.....that is applicable in my perception of myself as well as my perception of a prospective mate. I seewhat I wanna see. I'm learning about instincts...only taking about half a century....The false start count is way down....
Kids........ Kids as the rope in a "tug-of war" or the ball in some sort of points game/dance is an error, no doubt..... Kids are not a "chattel" to be used. Neither is a mate a chattel......I raised my three oldest as a single dad through their high school years. I made lots of errors.... Did some stuff correctly.....changed a family pattern, avoided the impulse to use them in an attempt to "fix" a past that already had enough pain....Asked myself "What would love do?" not.."How can I get even?"
Kids are a Joyous gift and a Joyous learning opportunity, not pawns for a meaningless soap opera drama.......
"Human speech is like a cracked kettle on which we tap crude rhythms for bears to dance to, while we long to make music that will melt the stars. ______________________- Gustave Flaubert......"madame bovary"
Single...... for about half a century I truly thought there was "Something wrong, something missing". I spent all sorts of energy trying to find the answer where it isn't. I engaged in the "Ego Dance" of the quest for True Love. Trying to fix and/or be fixed..... Finally I "Got It". The answer was never "Out There"..... Nothing is missing or amiss. I've never been "Single"...I am complete, a Spiritual Being having a Human Experience....... Would I like company? You bet... Do I want to control/ be controlled...return to the ego dance world of "Being Right or "winning"....? No, Thank You
"The guys do the chasing, the girls do the choosing......" So they get the guy they think is good, for them.............. There are few victims...lotsa volunteers....... What is Good? I think a Good woman is One who actually bleves in Equality...isn't trying to make up for some perceived "wrong" in a past I wasn't part of and has a sense of value and self worth...and can accept what IS....
Perhaps when You "buy" what they're selling and they get theit way. Wanting to "win someone over" would infer they stand to lose something....my take on it.....
Perception...which is all our bodies/minds are capable of, is a choice, not fact.......That is why 10 witnesses give 10 different accounts for the same incident..... Our minds have a lot of capacity...would bre interesting to know what they are doing.....they are in her mind for sure.....not weird......some level of conciousness (of hers) is vying for her attention....
The joyous part of the Ego driven Human Experience that a Spiritual Being can have....Important because it is the experience "happening".........wonderful at times 'cause of...Smell, Taste, Touch/Feel, Sight, Sound.....Wonderful, this experience of Perception/Illusion......
The relative merits of the Creation and the Construct......
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for all those enjoying the gift of parenthood....
RE: tasting women.............
As the decor, location, desirability affects the taste sensations experienced with menu choices in a restaurant, so too the "woman", her essence, affects the taste scale. That being said, a desirable woman tastes great all over and the "Best Before" date can be quite flexible.......