there is no control in a relationship true love comes from the soul.. you cannot control if someone loves you or not.. in order for love to last they both must be willing to open their hearts up to each other.. allow love for each other to grow with each of their heart beats.. ever lasting love comes from the soul.. you cannot and should not try to control someone.. to be with you or not to be with you.. to love you or not to love you is choices a person must make out of their own free will...
what to do or what not to do.. what to think or not to think, what to believe or what not to believe are choices one must make out of their own free will.. the choices and decision one makes is the ones they make out of their own free will.. no one has the right to try to take or makes these choices and decisions for someone else..
true love is freely giving it not something that can be taken.. but it is something earn and giving out of ones free will.. you cannot make someone love you, you can only make someone hate you
why is it when SOME woman sees a man with children, they think he's either marry or in a relationship.. do they not know there is such a thing as single fathers who has taken the responsibility of raising their children by their own selves...
being a single mother or a single father what they show people is they know the meaning of COMMITMENT they know the meaning of unconditional love.. since the beginning of time single mothers has step up and taken the responsibility of raising their children by their own selves and they deserve our up most respect.. being a single parent is not easy it is the hardest thing you can do..
but every once in a while a man steps up and takes the responsibility of raising their children by their own selves...which should tell people he knows and honor his COMMITMENTs and he knows what unconditional love is
to all of you single mothers and fathers out there, all of you have my upmost respect.. but wait we cannot and should not forget the grand parents out there like me.. who has step up to the plate and took full responsibility of raising their grand children by their own selves
lord help me I am getting too old to be raising children.. the old saying goes you want to make God laugh tell God the plans you have for your life.. than you will get a knock at your door and your plans has change.. just when you think you are done raising children.. you are shouting FREE AT LAST I AM FREE AT LAST aa you watch your last child leave home.. the next day you get a knock at your door and you are not free not last, you are just starting to do it all over again
anything and everything is possible in life, the only time when it is not possible is when there are no more tomorrows.. anyone is can change but only IF THEY WANT TO CHANGE.. you cannot change someone only they can change out of their own free will.. nor can you hope and wait someone will change,, there is a point when you have to say enough is enough and move on with your life
ok let's see if I have this right.. you want a candle lite dinner under the stars.. lighten by moon light.. you want flowers.. some slow dancing.. a bubble bath and a full body massage.. but no kiss on the first date
RE: control
there is no control in a relationship true love comes from the soul.. you cannot control if someone loves you or not.. in order for love to last they both must be willing to open their hearts up to each other.. allow love for each other to grow with each of their heart beats.. ever lasting love comes from the soul.. you cannot and should not try to control someone.. to be with you or not to be with you.. to love you or not to love you is choices a person must make out of their own free will...what to do or what not to do.. what to think or not to think, what to believe or what not to believe are choices one must make out of their own free will.. the choices and decision one makes is the ones they make out of their own free will.. no one has the right to try to take or makes these choices and decisions for someone else..
true love is freely giving it not something that can be taken.. but it is something earn and giving out of ones free will.. you cannot make someone love you, you can only make someone hate you