I pretty much would not want it back......what for? Put it on the mantle?Maybe go sell it for about one third what you paid for it....Let her keep it...who cares....Just another thing to argue about.
"never for one second give them to their father to raise"
I may have made the case that in most instances it has been the father that leaves the home,but I would never put forth that fathers can`t parent.Nothing could be further from the truth.As far as you believing that mothers should never "give" their children to the father to raise......well....might I add that in most civilized countries these decisions are not up to the one that wants to withhold them from the other parent.Courts will decide who is the better parent.
RE: Would you kiss the person above you or pass? Part 2
I make it a practice to not kiss anyone unless they have two eyes.