chrissy87 Forum Posts (998)

RE: Thank You!

glad to here you had a good time Mach.I love to hear about when people from here meet each other.

RE: Do you think online dating works or is safe?

Well none of us on here have gotten murdered yet.
Seriosly though just get to know a person before you would even agree to meet in person.The first time I met a person from the net I meet them in a public place.I also let someone know where & when I'll be there.I usually have a friend call during that time just to see how things are going.That way if I don't feel safe I can let them know.There have been several on here that I know of that have hooked up.So it must work!

RE: ok girls for u how u like yr men

Well for me I have to be there has to be some chemistry.
I prefer short dark hair.But i've dated blondes & guys with long hair also.
I also prefer guys taller than me with some meat on their bones.I'm not into the stick figure thing.
He has to have a good sense of humor,but also know when to be serious.I love it when a man makes me laugh.
He also has to be a gentleman & open doors for me.I also prefer him to pay when we go out.Yeah,once we've dated awhile I would have no problem pitching in once in a while.
I also like a guy who knows how to take charge.What I mean is I want a guy who can decide on his own what to do for a date.

I met a man....he's married

Well I just talked to him again.We did talk about taking things slow.One day at a time & just see where it leads us.He agrees & isn't ready to jump into anything serious to quickly.We just seem to hit if off really good.He's also a clean cut guy & he said he's kinda shy at first.But, we haven't had a problem finding things to talk about.

RE: Blonde Jokes

RE: would u date or marry a man from another country??

I would have no problem dating or marrying someone from another country.I love learning about different cultures.However,when it comes to someone of another religion,they would have to believe in the same God as I do & know that Jesus is the only answer.Sorry,But that is where I would have to draw the line.

RE: Immigration has contacted you, What to do now?

I'm so cofused.
People get mad because they say the govt.doesnt tell us everything,yet when they ask questions we shouldn't answer.
I can understand why the govt.doesn't tell us everything because of security.But,what do you need to hide from the govt.Unless you are a dishonest person yopu would have nothing to lose.

RE: Blonde Jokes

A blonde is standing in front of a change machine.
She looks around to see if anyone is looking.
It's safe.
She pulls a dollar bill out of her pocket & puts it in the machine.
She looks around.
It's safe.
She quickly grabs the change & put it in her pocket.
She gets another dollar from her pocket & puts it in the machine.
She looks around.
It's safe.
She quickly grabs the change & puts it in her pocket.
She repeats this several more times.
Finally,a man walks up to her & says,
"Mam,could I ask you,what in the world are you doing?"
The blonde replies,"duh,I'm winning."

RE: Immigration has contacted you, What to do now?

I agree,answer their questions.Only someone who has something to hide would be worried.That wouls save you from heartache also.

RE: If we men roar.....then r all women screamers or just you:))!!!

That's a secret I'll never tell

RE: HELLO ALL INSHAPE WOMEN!

Later dude
or not1

I met a man....he's married

You're right there wikked I know that divorced men can't hurt you any more than single men.I know this from alot of heartaches.I find the older I get the easier it is for me to let my heart lead the way but still listen to my head.I'm just so afraid of being just a rebound thing for him.

RE: Ethical Dilemma regarding my soon-2-b-x

I think I would remain at the church,esecially if you feel comfortable there.I grew up in one church,then when I got older I started looking for a new one.It takes time to find a church where you feel at home.My feeling is that if he can't accept it then he isn't being a very good christian brither.Yeah,I can see where he is coming from byt you have to face your fears & not run from them.I do think that counseling with the pastor is a good idea for all those involved.

RE: Krista's Dayz..

Gotta love it

I met a man....he's married

Thanks deadman.This sounds really wierd talking to a dead man.Oh well,believe me I plan on taking it slow.I also know that there are always 2 sides to a story.I wasn't born yesterday.He doesn't talk nasty or anything like that about his soon to be ex.He was the first one to say he wasn't ready for anything serious right now.

I met a man....he's married

Thanks guys.I will take it slow.He was married for 15 yrs.He said they just grew apart & she asked for the divorce so he filed.They are actually going with a dissolution.So at least I know they are being civil about it.As for his step kids.I would much rather he does stay in touch with them.He said his grandkids are very special to him.He showed me their pics on his phone.I would much rather see someone who is active in his families lives than not.

RE: Pre-nuptial agreements..

No I wouldn't sign one unless it stated that if the end of the marriage was totally his fault then I would get some compensation.I would do the same for him.No, it's not about the material things.It's just about not having someone marry you for your money then taking everything you have.

I met a man....he's married

Friday night I went out with the girls.
A friend went up to someone she didn't know & introduced me & told him I was single & we should talk.
Well, he bought me a drink & we did talk.
Great conversation.
Then we went out to breakfast & talked til 5am.
We went out for dinner Sat. evening.
We just seem to hit it off really good.
The problem is he's going through a divorce & it will be finalized on Sept.8th.
What to do?What to do?
He has no kids with her but 2 stepdaughters who are out of the house.He also has 2 step grandkids.
Any advice?I don't want to be the rebound,but I feel we have alot in common.

Happy B-day texastornado

Happy Bitrthday texas.
Have a great day!

RE: My Advice To You....

First & foremost you have to love yourself before you can love someone else.Be true to yourself.Don't compromise your values for someone elses beliefs.
You have to be Ms.Right before you can find Mr.Right

RE: Sassywoman is sick and ask for prayers or wishes for her to get well soon.

I hope you're felling better soon Sassywoman.
May God bless you with good health.

RE: WOULD YOU STILL DATE HIM???

NOPE!

RE: Just checking it out to see what it's all about.

Welcome to CS.
Hope you enjoy the ride.
Best of luck.

RE: new to this just want to make new friends

Welcome to CS
I think you need to visit the hunk thread!

RE: I'm new here

Haven't I seen you somewhere befor?
Oh well, welcome to CS.

RE: Baby Mama Drama.....Baby Daddy Drama......

Sorry,I would run as fast as I can!
No drama for me!

RE: I am new here...whats up?

Hi,welcome to CS
Hope you have a great time in here
You should have a blast

RE: Getting to know you...xfahctor

What is your favorite pasttime?

RE: if u hit the lotto what would U do?

First off I would invest some & donate some to charities.Then I would buy a log cabin in the mountains.Then I would send invitations & tickets for all my friends & family to come for a visit.

RE: Enjoyment or improvement?

couldn't agree with you more.I am happy with myself just the way I am.I love the person I've become.I try to be very open-minded & am not looking to change anyone.I'm just looking for someone who is comfortable in his own shoes.