This is a question for the ladies...but i'd like to hear the men's opinion's as well...
If you met someone, and you "hit it off", and they guy wants to take you out and all that...but he throws in there that if there isn't enough time to do something (like dinner, or a movie or go out somewhere) he could still make the time for a couple of hours to (you know...) wouldn't you get the feeling that he is only with you for the ...you know ...
To be very honest Wikked i use to let men use me because i didnt think i deserved anything better than to be a piece of (you know) and i would bend my schedule to suit him and only his needs and never me but now HELL NO i wouldnt
I really wanted to Lor...he came to my job today...rode his motorbike and was wearing leather and smelled so nice...looked soooo hot...and well you know...
But i just don't think i can do this...its really not what i want for myself...and if i keep it up with him...i'm never going to have the time to find what i'm really looking for...right????
Just my opinion...but you're worth more than that! If this is the kind of relationship that you want--go for it and enjoy it! But if not...Please move on and look for what you want in a relationship.
I've been arguing with myself all evening over this...we were supposed to go out tomorrow night...our first real "date"...he rode down this evening to ask me out...since i won't answer my phone when he calls...and i won't return his phone calls...lol (he actually lives up near Daryl)...I just knew if he got within one foot of me i'd be in this predicament....
No...i guess i won't be seeing him after all...but i'll tell you Lor...he had it all going on in all the right places...
This happened to me a couple of years ago. (yes I can get women and yes there are some who do this) I told her no because this was not what I was looking for. For all I knew she did the same thing the night before. But, we are all human and have certain "needs" to attend to. We are all adults and are free to make our own choices. Who am I to judge someone else?
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If you met someone, and you "hit it off", and they guy wants to take you out and all that...but he throws in there that if there isn't enough time to do something (like dinner, or a movie or go out somewhere) he could still make the time for a couple of hours to (you know...) wouldn't you get the feeling that he is only with you for the ...you know ...
So...would you continue to see him????