not from experience on the mans part but gotta think women are capable of that as well , they may want to rush for whatever reason ,i think the i have other options was a ploy to get you to stop or to slow your leaving down a bit JMO the thing is always go for what you feel in your heart as thats my favorite quote"Follow Your Heart" things will be clear to him in the end if he cares for you at all again JMO
when my mom had a stroke i had the same feeling of relief it is common tho it makes you feel guilty but i was there everyday sometimes all night i wanted her safe and the doctors and nurses did an excellent job and my mom loved me the same im sure your dad probably wants it this way or he would be askin you to bring him home JMO
another point not to be taken lightly Urs if you are comfortable with askin the question should speak volumes on your willingness to atleast try to move on regardless of circumstances but ultimately our opinions are just that and you have to make the choice. love doest end simply because the persons involved are no longer compatible quite the opposite happens actually your love for that person stays in full effect it somehow gets hidden away only to resurface as a fond memory it will happen and some guy will sweep you off of your feet and im sure there are several guys here that have been swept away by your caring nature so stick to your guns for thats who you are and what makes you strong JMO
well think about this i have been down for a few days now i want to move on but in the same sense is it to soon i dont think it is although feelings dont change the reason those feelings were there does and the point of dating is to move forward not look back i say follow your heart not because i am trying to believe it i do it because the past is just that if it didnt work for whatever reason i have room to move forward but keep in mind you can move on and still feel a tie to the person left behind and i think thats ok as well like this quote about love
the wonderful thing about love is you do not have to take it away from one to give it to another
i have to agree with kevin i mean think about it sometimes your forced to move on not by choice but by circumstances and how are you gonna know if the one person thats been tryin to get your attention is there if you arent looking everyone needs a grace period i believe but let it be up to them how long they need and dont judge by what you think is rushed JMO
only obligation anyone has is to themselves and there immediate lives if a person cant understand that then its their problem im obligated to raising my children and wikked you gave me valuable advice ty but that doesnt make you obligated to me or anyone else you choose to help.just makes you a friend ty for everything you are a wonderful soul god bless and good luck
what if you dont -maybe he is counting on the same what if's maybe he is saying what if she is intimidated by my profession now maybe what if she thinks im stuck up what would happen if you chose not to go
personality first then looks another quote that comes to mind is :a man shouldnt love a woman because she is beautiful she is beautiful because he loves her
i would let her stay hey i have friends i will go to their house me and ex cant be in same house together but if i can get her to see the kids then me going elsewhere is worth it
i think it has more to do with sheer will and determination if you have a passion and desire to be with one woman and she dont see it as soon as you walk away might be when she opens her heart to the possibility or same for women wanting guys i think because we as humans are so driven but the foremost thought we forget that there is another avenue as well gotta quit using california stops and start yielding more JMO
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