Hi there and welcome.. There are some great people on here,I see you have already met Ali and I know you will enjoy the forums. They are a fun way of meeting people
Big mistake a lot of us women make..meeting someone then thinking we can change them. If he is not right for you just keep looking till you find someone who is.. Saves a lot of heartache for both people later on
Women want someone that will make them feel things. Someone who is intelligent- I'm not talking about rocket scientist material, someone who is practical, quick-witted, and finds quick solutions to challenges. They also want someone that is strong...again I'm not talking about muscular and physical strength..someone that is willing to accept and deal with the curve balls life throws at us and close out the day with a smile on the their face. They also want some who is assertive enough to COMMUNICATE what they want not necessarily request it or state it..as being too forward too soon is a turn off too.(quote]
Still have love for my exhusband..but would not want him back .How can I not ? we had two lovely daughters together and good times mixed up with the not so good.. I too wish him well in his future life.
Trinity ,keep the faith there are good women out there who would love to meet someone with your values.. Do not let your self become bitter as that is a sure turn off. Stay positive keep your sense of humour and stay true to your self and she will come along.If it's at all possible, reunite with your son and start building a fantastic relationship with him..If you are the family man you say you are ,he deserves to have his daddy in his life.. Good luck for the New Year
Carl I can't even take too much offence at your thinking as I think some woman must have really wounded you so badly in the past, that you wouldn't give a good one half a chance...Hopefully you will meet someone special that will be able to melt that heart of yours... All the best mate
Don't know that they are harder to find than nice women.. It's all about recognising the diamonds that lay among the dross..Keep looking, the right one will appear. In the meantime I will keep working on myself so I can at least be as good as I am hoping he will be
He was lucky to have someone like you love him...a lot of people are never so fortunate.. Try to remember the good times and be kind to yourself...I can understand your feeling like this, as I also just recently lost someone,I have decided to live my future with the same integrity and honesty and care my friend showed..I am sure there are lessons your friend has taught you also .. Take care
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Hi there and welcome.. There are some great people on here,I see you have already met Ali and I know you will enjoy the forums. They are a fun way of meeting people