Long discussions online... When you're comfortable with it...Get his phone #...then... Talk...a LOT...!! Everything under the sun..!! Most women won't even _Consider_ a LDR . . Just for the distance-sake...without even considering if He'd be open to relocating..!! ~ Right, 'Venus....'...??
I guess they DO make good Watch-dogs....as long as they're friendly to those that feed them...!! It would tend to invite unwanted attention to the growers, though....but.... ~~We All Have Our Bears To Cross..!!~~
I guess they DO make good Watch-dogs....as long as they're friendly to those that feed them...!! It would tend to invite unwanted attention to the growers, though....but.... ~~We All Have Our Bears To Cross..!!~~
I've found that one of the Biggest obstacles in creating a good, loving relationship is the ~Distance-Factor~!! Personally, I've sent Hundreds of very polite notes (via other sites...I've only been a member here for 10 days) to some very nice ladies, and of the 2% that have actually replied, 90% have merely said : "You're Too Far Away!"...and that's All! Without the Slightest consideration that I might be open to Relocating to Her!! There are Thousands of Perfect matches out there...if they'd just make a half an effort to strike up a conversation and TALK...!! There are some exceptional women, here...I only hope that I either find one in close proximity, or that she's willing to make an effort and ...just Maybe... find Exactly the Mr. Right that she's looking for..!!
~Hope Springs Eternal!!~ I'm hoping that I get a chance to find a second one ...in one lifetime...or would that be ~Greedy~? ...and she doesn't let ~Distance~ get in the way..!!
I don't generally peruse mens profiles....but... I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't wear a shirt for most of the year... Yard-work and beach-going...etc...
I just wish more Women would post more shirtless profile pics..!! CHORTLE
Looks...to get my attention... A good conversation...to exchange backgrounds/likes/dislikes... Availability...either close by or willing to discuss relocation(either) Openness...We can talk frankly about ANY subject(intimacy, etc...) without hesitation...
I travelled that road in '98, with the passing of my wife... I cried for almost two full years... I'd see her face in clouds...in lakes...rivers...smoke... I only hope that I get another chance to fulfill the promise I made her...!!
#10.) Her classic car #9.) Availability #8.) Sultry voice #7.) Long muscular legs #6.) Fishnets #5.) Very Tall #4.) Very Long hair #3.) Hourglass figure #2.) Almond-shaped eyes #1.) KISSING
...only started with 5...but stretched it to 10.... just for S&G...
I'm just the opposite....(almost)...as long as the chemistry is there....and she really Likes giving....it'll be an Even-Trade!!! I'd prefer to go down on Her...First.... And Last...!!! As many times as she can stand..!!
While I Do understand the effects of time and gravity on people, (Yes, I _Used to_ have lots of wavy auburn hair and semi straight, white teeth and a set of abs that could take a punch like a 3/4" sheet of plywood!) I've tried to maintain a youthful attitude and outlook on life! And, True....I'm more attracted to slightly younger women than I was 30 yrs ago...but I'd Jump at the chance to date an attractive Lady of my own age-group....with the ~Drive~ of a 35 yr-old..!! Between the effects of nature and loss of general ~Interest~, there seems to be a much smaller percentage of Mature women that have maintained some form of desire for passion!
That's just how I see it....Prove me wrong . . . . . . . . . p l e a s e!!
First? Her photo.... If a head and shoulders shot... Her smile, eyes, facial structure, hair, expression
If a Full-body shot... Her general build, (I like slim/slender/athletic) her proportionality and how she is posed
I generally pass on 'Group-shots'.... you can bet your last dime that I'll be attracted to someone Other than who created the profile...
If I'm attracted enough to write her a note, I'm somewhere between "Hmmmmmm...she's Cute! I'd like to get to know her!" . . and . . "Is Niagara Falls acceptable??"
I like ~Tongue-Wrestling~ . . !! Not a forced . . Down-the-Throat-type.... But a mutual intertwining and exploring / sharing of Passion!! Just enough to inspire a mutual desire to take it Horizontal ..!!
(Preferably . . but not Necessarily . . in Private!)
Being able to DELETE my account! Finding The One Lady that is as into me as I am into her... A ~Soul-Mate~, as it were... Someone that I'd be Inspired to Kiss . . sing to, and dance with . . . Any time . . Any Place !!
Personally...I don't have an 'excuse'....I'm open, honest and eager to find a nice Lady..!! The main problem is that I live in a _Very_ small town (pop. 2,468) and all the Single . . Available . . Attractive . . Females . . Are Still in High-School..!!!
What Irks me, though, is while looking outside my general area... The most common response to a polite, friendly letter of admiration is...: "You're Too Far Away!!" Without giving the Least consideration to the possibility that I would be willing to relocate to Her..!! *Distance*...isn't necessarily _Permanent_...!!
A Tomboy would be fine....I like athletic and coordinated... won't trip over her own shadow and not afraid of breaking a nail to catch a Frisbee! ...and still feminine enough to look eye-catching in an evening gown, heels and well-applied makeup!!
This has been the L o n g e s t week I can remember in _Years_....: Waiting for the Forums to become 'accessable'..!! I'll be celebrating the 22nd Anniversary of turning 35 . . next month. I'm not the GQ-type, and I'm not looking for a Super-model, but I have been described as 'cute' and 'attractive' is pretty enough. I'm always a gentleman...respectful and chivalrous... No 'Macho-Slob / Bad-boy' here..!! I wouldn't mind starting as friends, and building from ground-level...but I AM hoping for a committed, loving relationship!
Feel free to critique my profile, photos and spelling/grammar!! . .
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RE: You are over 40
May I be your Tour-Guide...??I'll bring my Cherry-Stem-Knot necklace for good luck...!!