I'm trying to quit smoking. I've been using the patch for awhile now. It sure has helped me with the cravings but the dreams I have while using the patch are unbelievable.
Everyone I talk to has a different idea on how to deal with this. Does anyone have any ideas? I'm open to suggestions.
I have been the one to "make first contact" with both men that have pics and without. I have to admit that my shyness even follows me to this site. It's something that I am working on.
I think part of the problem I had in the past with posting my pic was that I wasn't "mature" enough to handle the "requests" for different kinds of pics. I didn't know how to "just say no". I started to feel that no one was willing to talk to me with out lewdness being a part of it. I haven't chatted or joined forums in years. I had to grow up first. I am who I am and I can say "no thanks" and move on. I had to realize that there are people who are willing to get to know me with out wanting those kinds of pics. (I'm not sure that makes sense)
I try to respond to all... pic or not.. Like I said if someone takes the time to write to me it only seems right to write back. Not responding sort of defeats the purpose of coming to a site like this.
I reply to ALL mail and flowers sent to me. If someone takes the time to make contact (pic or no pic) the least I can do is reply. If it's a lewd message "no thanks" usually is enough.
I've had bad experiences posting my own pic so I choose not to, but if someone where to ask for it and I felt comfortable with the that situation I would share a pic with them.
Rejection...neglect... i'm afraid that my last relationship has left me scared of caring again. I'm scared that I will care and those feels will not be returned or shown to me. I know that I won't always feel this way and in fact over the last few months I've started to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Healing takes so damned long.
I've had a chemical reaction to someone...it was a very strange feeling. Nothing came of it. The only reason that it didn't progress was due to the lack of a connection. (or me being shy). I think that the chemistry was so intense and I was so shocked by it that without even knowing it I removed myself from the situation. I wish I hadn't. Who knows it may have become a connection.
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I needed that laugh ...Thanks
RE: your personal fav #1 love song of all times....
Elton John-Your SongBilly Joel-She's always a woman
Woody Boyd-Kelly :)