Chemistry...and...Connection (11)

Oct 14, 2006 6:16 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Just wondering if there could be chemistry between two people but no connection....

Went out with someone...and it was a very enjoyable "date"...and definitely the "chemistry" was there...but i don't think there was any "connection" there...as much as i thought he was a great person, I can't really see myself with him somewhere in the future...does that make sense to anyone??

...or anyone else experience this??
Oct 15, 2006 5:20 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
Yes of course.

I agree with Princess's views on this and her example was an actual relationship.

For me, on this site for example...i have had chemistry with some thru chat/email but no connection. Due to several factors...distance being the biggest hurdle.
Oct 15, 2006 5:23 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I happen to see it the opposite Puck...

I feel a certain "connection" to those that i form relationships with here...more of a meeting of the mind, beautiful long conversations and such...

But for me to feel "chemistry" i would have to actually be in that person's physical presence...hug
Oct 15, 2006 5:56 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
ladyhawk74
ladyhawk74ladyhawk74Barrie, Ontario Canada1 Threads 13 Posts
I've had a chemical reaction to someone...it was a very strange feeling. Nothing came of it. The only reason that it didn't progress was due to the lack of a connection. (or me being shy). I think that the chemistry was so intense and I was so shocked by it that without even knowing it I removed myself from the situation. I wish I hadn't. Who knows it may have become a connection.blushing
Oct 15, 2006 7:40 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
ya wikked,
that is the way i meant to say it....reverse...chemistry and connection. whoops sorry
Oct 15, 2006 8:12 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I actually did think you meant that...but on the off chance...laugh hug
Oct 15, 2006 9:37 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
Pucks
PucksPucksVernon, Canada107 Threads 3,326 Posts
i have met some cool people on here...two i met in person and are friends.

thing is, the ones i feel a connection with are serioulsy....prairies, mountains, lakes and miles away. it is starting to bug me..doh
Oct 15, 2006 9:50 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
As i've said..i've been on the forums for a long time...but on the int'l forums...made heaps of awesome friends...some i also got to meet..and spend time with...but that's just it..they had to go back home to their "lives"...

And it started to bug me too that all the people i know were from the States really...and i was missing the "human" companionship...
and as odd as it may sound...it did depress me at times...its not like i could have just jumped in my car and drive to them spur of the moment...moping
Oct 15, 2006 10:06 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing hug
Jul 21, 2007 8:32 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
tazmaninangel
tazmaninangeltazmaninangelEdmonton, Alberta Canada118 Threads 1 Polls 2,608 Posts
Wouldn't this be considered lust?
Jul 21, 2007 8:35 PM CST Chemistry...and...Connection
johnmarkus
johnmarkusjohnmarkustoronto, Canada34 Threads 1,384 Posts
Pof goers moving on in.canada
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