What Scares You About New Relationships??? ( Archived) (53)

Aug 14, 2006 3:06 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
When entering into a new relationship...what are you afraid of the most?..

Is it the time you have to commit..the commitment itself..or even the intimacy...or is there something else...
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Aug 14, 2006 3:07 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
fast moving! They wanna go ahead and plan ya life together!
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Aug 14, 2006 3:08 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
MichaelH
MichaelHMichaelHNowhere, Indiana USA24 Threads 620 Posts
Someone wanting every little detail about my life within the first 5 minutes.
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Aug 14, 2006 3:08 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Rejection, being cheated on, lied to and or betrayed
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Aug 14, 2006 3:11 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
WindRider
WindRiderWindRiderPhiladelphia, Pennsylvania USA11 Threads 602 Posts
that she wont let me wear my favorite sneakers cheers
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Aug 14, 2006 3:12 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
i guess whatever happened in the last relationship i had
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Aug 14, 2006 3:14 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
and bossy! Bossy people suck!
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Aug 14, 2006 3:14 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
I concure Tracy! However, i would also like to add, risking getting my heart broken again(essentially the same as betrayal i guess)...it gets harder with every heartbreak, so investing myself completely would be difficult to do. sigh
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Aug 14, 2006 3:21 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Unfortunately Melissa I have to agree here...i find that i am less able to be as trusting and giving to the next person...and i deeply regret that because they don't deserve to be punished for someone else's mistakes...sigh
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Aug 14, 2006 3:22 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
Fdapolis
FdapolisFdapolis154 Posts
That would be the "new"
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Aug 14, 2006 3:22 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
ADULT
ADULTADULTriverside, California USA3 Posts
HMMMM....WHAT SCARES ME
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I GUESS JUST NOT BEING ABLE TO CONECT.... I DONT WANT NO SILENT MOMENTS
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Aug 14, 2006 3:27 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I am guilty of the "silent moments" of late...but not because i don't have anything to say...its more because i am processing something that was said (remember this is a new partner and is hopefully introducing new topics to your conversation)...or sometimes they say something...and well the effect it has on me leaves me speechless...blushing
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Aug 14, 2006 3:27 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
If you connect with someone well enough, then silent moments should be a comfortable thing.

Just the thought of a new relationship leaves me cold these days and keep distancing myself from any possibilities.

I think because I have very little faith left in anything working...devil
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Aug 14, 2006 3:28 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
xfahctor
xfahctorxfahctorlancaster, New Hampshire USA44 Threads 1,643 Posts
simply opening up and trusting another
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Aug 14, 2006 3:28 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
Two things,
firstly, if you are with someone, and you can enjoy silence, then you are truly a couple. You dont need to continually speak to communicate. Less is more, as I am being told regularly.

secondly, would you mind not using capitals for the entire part of your post. I would like to read what you say, but it is a little difficult with so many capitals. Thankshandshake
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Aug 14, 2006 3:29 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I hear you both Mel & Wikked!

After getting hurt over and over again its sometimes hard to think about the positive and move on with a new relationship.

What I have learned from past experience is to be careful and take things one day at a time now.

hug
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Aug 14, 2006 3:32 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
i scare everybody that gets near me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lmao!!!!

muuuauaaaahahahhaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

grin
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Aug 14, 2006 3:33 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Ummmm...might you be looking for a new relationship???wink

By the way i went looking for the Cuban cigars today for Izzy, but Kris said she didn't think she'd be seeing you guys on her way home...
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Aug 14, 2006 3:35 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
Yeah....I might be looking for a new partner very very soon. Any volunteers?
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Aug 14, 2006 3:36 PM CST What Scares You About New Relationships???
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Do you know the nicest thing anyone could have said to me came from Cat and funny enough...Cranbrook...I guess my pictures depict me a certain way...and i do look like my pictures...but my personality is totally opposite from my looks...

Cat says she will tell me exactly how she felt about meeting me and seeing the "real me"...but i have to wait until she gets home..
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