I concure Tracy! However, i would also like to add, risking getting my heart broken again(essentially the same as betrayal i guess)...it gets harder with every heartbreak, so investing myself completely would be difficult to do.
Unfortunately Melissa I have to agree here...i find that i am less able to be as trusting and giving to the next person...and i deeply regret that because they don't deserve to be punished for someone else's mistakes...
I am guilty of the "silent moments" of late...but not because i don't have anything to say...its more because i am processing something that was said (remember this is a new partner and is hopefully introducing new topics to your conversation)...or sometimes they say something...and well the effect it has on me leaves me speechless...
Two things, firstly, if you are with someone, and you can enjoy silence, then you are truly a couple. You dont need to continually speak to communicate. Less is more, as I am being told regularly.
secondly, would you mind not using capitals for the entire part of your post. I would like to read what you say, but it is a little difficult with so many capitals. Thanks
Do you know the nicest thing anyone could have said to me came from Cat and funny enough...Cranbrook...I guess my pictures depict me a certain way...and i do look like my pictures...but my personality is totally opposite from my looks...
Cat says she will tell me exactly how she felt about meeting me and seeing the "real me"...but i have to wait until she gets home..
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Is it the time you have to commit..the commitment itself..or even the intimacy...or is there something else...