Duce, I have had it done to me as well, it hurts and I agree. I take it slow if there is a man who likes me, and I am not sure. I tell them I want to go slow chat and see where that goes. As we are chatting I mention that I am in search of my last love. That usually scares the players off btw lol. I also let them know I am chatting with other men. I know if I really like someone like now not saying who. At that point I tell the others I am interested in a great guy! Along with any new - comers. It sometimes hurts them yet I feel it`s better to hurt them with the truth. I do not lead them on, and they know what is going on! Look at it this way it was not meant to be, dust yourself off and prepare for the right one. Remember things do not happen in our time when we want them, it is up to the Man upstairs!
Heck no ... he is remarried anyways he abused me, so please understand why I replied harshley. I left him in the summer of 1994 with our four daughters. The road was long the struggle was hard would I do it again in a heart beat. Yet a part of me is glad they are grown, my youngest is now 17. She is expecting my 7th grandchild in June. My oldest is 24 married with 3 of my grandsons they are 3, 2, a step son he is 7. My 22 year old is also married has my eldest grandson he is 6, she also was the first to give me a girl she is 3 months. My 18 year old has 1 he is 2, will be 3 June 7th. I am at that point for the first time in my life, that I can be selfish and say it`s time for Mom. To all of us who have children and or Grankids, we know we stand behind them because they are our kids. No matter where I might go or how far I am, no matter what choices they make. They will always know I love them, as I tell them each day. As I lay my head down at night, I thank God for them as they are a blessing!
James, I agree it is sad for this is serious stuff here there is a killer on the loose yet it is over looked? It makes me sick to see that people like Starman and his annoying ways gets pages after pages of responces! I sure hope at the least they are doing a copy and paste to pass along in their e-mails! My soul is whole and happy yet my eyes are still sad thank you friend for responding!
I just recieved this in my mail from a friend, please beware and pass this information on!
Subject: WARNING FROM THE STATE POLICE. . USA (Not a joke.)
WARNING FROM THE STATE POLICE. . USA (Not a joke)
> > > >>>State police warning for online: Please read this "very carefully" >>>>>>>.......then send it out to all the people online that you know. >>>>>>>Something like this is nothing to be taken casually; this is something >>>>>>>you DO want to pay attention to.
> > > >>>If a person with the screen-name of Monkeyman935 contacts you, do > > > >>>not reply. DO not talk to this person; do not answer any of his/her > > > >>>instant messages or e-mail. Whoever this person may be, he/she is a > > > >>>suspect for murder in the death of 56 women (so far) contacted through the > > > >>>Internet.
> > > >>>Please send this to all the women on your buddy list and ask them > > > >>>To pass this on, as well. This screen-name was seen on Yahoo, AOL, > > > >>>AIM, and Excite so far. This is not a joke! Please send this to men > > > >>>too...just in case! Send to everyone you know! Ladies, this is serious.
I feel that as long as you and her want the friendship, to go on it is both of your choices Not his! Go for it afterall friends are there long after the man is gone!
I feel pretty old today, I have my two year old grandson and he has been screaming for an hour and a half. I think he might be coming down with something, as my daughter said he slept only four hours. All I can say is I will be happy when she gets back lol.
I have been there was with a man for a year he would get real mean when drunk, which was daily. He would yell at me for hours controlling and nasty blamed me for everything. I left him two months ago, I am lonely yet much better off. You deserve better as we all do.
From what I learned there is an invisible line one crosses over while drinking heavy daily. You do not know when you cross this line but once you do, drinking is no longer a choice. It becomes an illness and you must feed it. I was with an alcoholic for six years and I drank like five times a week. I never crossed that line thank God, I was able to just say no more for awhile. I still drink a few times a month one or two. Getting drunk is no longer fun as I always paid with feeling lousy the next day. So I agree they deserve a pat on the back for the strength and courage they have faced congratulations to all of you who went through it!
RE: Why do we care what the person looks like so much?
We do need a spark to make the flame.