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OK, let's talk about ....

I don't recall that. But I was just a kid. LOL..

I do remember April 16 (I think) 1998, though. Five tornados surrounded Nashville, three of which touched down and destroyed a major portion of the city, as well as surrounding neighborhoods and counties. It was as devastating as they come. I don't think there's been anything like it in the area since 1933 (my mom remembers that one).

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

That's very profound..yes, I believe it is.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

Here we go again with the thinly veiled insults.

There's not a damn thing wrong with my personality.

Don't you mean, "if her intelligence, outspokenness, and the fact that, even though she's a 'mere woman,' she's not afraid to put a man in his place" doesn't chase him away?

dunno

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

Dating by proxy? Hmmm...interesting way to put it.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

"What it is" for me is all about the forums, mainly. And..I figure..maybe..just maybe..one of these days the man who I was meant to be with might show up.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

It may be "online," but how can it be "dating?" I thought dating was like...going out with people.

I have gone out with some men, not very many, because no one with whom I have shared a mutual (initial) interest in is looking for the same thing I am. Oh..they say they are, sure...but..well, we know the rest of that story.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

Girl..what's wrong with you? LOL...have you not been following the threads today? This is an experiment..please..keep your seat. Keep all body parts inside the car until the ride has come to a complete stop. Thank you for your cooperation.

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RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

It isn't "online dating," per se...its an introductory system so that people can meet and take the next step to "IRL" dating.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

Okay...here's a candor scenario "experiment" for you.

I would never go out with a guy like you. Why? Because you lack integrity. You are a game player and a liar and a cheater.

Now, how do I know this? I just know. I can tell. I can see it in your eyes. I can "hear" it in your words. Despite actions that would suggest anything BUT that, I have an instinctual, built-in lie detector that just tells me that, despite what you may claim, you are not a man who can be trusted.

Food for thought.

RE: Why isn't Candor Appreciated?

When you purport to know someone and why they do the things they do and blame them for the actions of others, and ASSume things about them based on vague, non-specific generalities, that is not candor; that is just being rude, inconsiderate, and antagonistic.

OK, let's talk about ....

No, I know it wasn't directed at me; I just didn't know to what you were referring.

OK, let's talk about ....

No problem. Thanks.

OK, let's talk about ....

What sounds like ignorance to you? The scientific facts about what? You lost me here.

RE: The problem with forums is interpretations

There's no mayonnaise in Ireland.

RE: Wow, a serious question from me. Seriously, I need some help.

Oh..well, that's good to know! Glad I could make someone happy today!

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RE: Wow, a serious question from me. Seriously, I need some help.

Ahh...I see. Well, I've had an epidural before. And it didn't hurt a bit. Of course, I wasn't focused too much on the needle going into my spine, since my pelvic bones were being forced apart at the time by a human being trying to make her first appearance into the world...

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Why don't you take the psychology degree you got out of the Cracker Jack box and put it to better use? I've heard enough of your drivel. You are using blanket assumptions and are in no way "on the mark."

Have a nice day.

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RE: Wow, a serious question from me. Seriously, I need some help.

You can say what type of narcotics! That doesn't violate any HIPAA regs that I know of. Obviously, if it's severe pain she's in, you're going to be talking about such things as Oxycontin, etc., which I won't EVEN touch. I got Oxycodone for some dental work and only took one pill. After that, it was Tylenol III and even then only one or two a day.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Maybe it's just me, but I don't think expecting integrity out of a man is that tall of an order...

dunno

RE: Wow, a serious question from me. Seriously, I need some help.

I was thinking about the relation those nerves have with the sciatic nerve, which can affect various areas.

You said it's a painful procedure? uh oh How painful? And for how long? yikes...

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

That's good to know, but what does it have to do with my question?

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Grow up; I had other things to take care of for a while.roll eyes

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Okay...thanks for participating. I'm not interested in having a discussion with a juvenile.

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RE: This is supposed to be dating??

A man walks into a convenience store, pulls a gun on the clerk. Tells the clerk to "give me all of your money." The clerk goes to open the door, the robber pulls out a .357 magnum and blows the clerk's head off.

The clerk should have:

a) seen it coming. He should have known the guy was a robber.

b) opened the cash drawer 10 seconds faster than he did.

c) called in sick to work that day because he should have known he was going to be robbed.

e) gotten a Slurpie and a Moon Pie and taken a break right before the robber came in.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

What unmitigated GALL. "You chose to TRUST THE WRONG PERSON???"

If the content of their character had been EVIDENT in the first place we wouldn't be having this discussion.

"You ALLOWED YOURSELF TO BE DECEIVED?????"

Not one word about how HE is to be blamed for HIS character ...or the lack thereof.

How DARE you blame me for someone else's lack of integrity.



very mad

OK, let's talk about ....

Well...just in general terms...we are seeing some strange weather patterns for the season. Do you think it's just coincidental or do you see this as a sign of things to come? I remember here in Nashville when my daughter was born in 1976 we had at least a foot of snow on the ground. And most every winter we had snow. Now, we hardly ever get any snow at all. (Not that I'm complaining; I hate snow!)

OK, let's talk about ....

What he was doing was twisting it around...normally it would say.."The weather's beautiful; wish you were here."

I don't buy that it was "just" a joke; I think he meant it as an insult and then tried to cover it up with "humor."

Either that or he just wants me...bad.


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RE: This is supposed to be dating??

How am I to be blamed for making a "bad choice?" Hindsight is 20/20...so..before I answer any of your other questions, answer that for me.

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

When the day comes that men start treating women with the respect they deserve you might find those women easier to come by. If there are women who are like that, what do you think made them that way? Think they were born with that attitude?

dunno

RE: This is supposed to be dating??

Wouldn't it be nice if it were just that simple?

The man of your dreams will fall right into your arms if you simply put, "I'm looking for a nice guy. I don't want a player or a liar or a jerk. Therefore, all jerks stay away."

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