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It's sad when ex's can't act civil even when there aren't children involved. I'd like to at least be friends with mine, he was a good guy when we started out, but somewhere he crossed the line, and turnied into a stranger. That's why I let him come over today, so maybe we could be friends again, but no, it's still all my fault, even tho I did everything he wanted and more for the last several years we were married, including paying all the bills and generally taking care of everything crucial. When I decided that utilities were a bit more important than beer, he didn't really like that, and that's when the ending began. So yes, it is sad, and I'm willing to take responsibility for my part in the break up, which I tried to communicate to him today, but no, he was having no part of that, he just wanted to piss me off, and he did, royally, and got to see the new and improved me in action. Before it would have turned into a big argument with me trying talk to him, and him having none of it, but I'd had enough after about 5 minutes of the same old bs that it always was, so that's why I just told him to get the eff outta MY yard. The look on his face was priceless!
That's exactly what happened, this stupid thread that some stupid man started about women looking older kept poppin back up every few day, and Lee and I and some others were gonna try to send it over the 1000 mark and kill if off for good. This cute boyscout popped in, and I asked if he wanted to help me cross the street, and as he says, the rest is history. Well, not really, cause this book has just started being written.
The only way to make a connection is when two hearts touch, and that can happen online, or anywhere. I'm just so lucky to have found what I wasn't looking for, what I didn't even know I wanted. How can you want something that you don't know even exists?
Hey alpha, you may have already noticed by now, but this might not be the best place to find women who are "nice and soft-spoken." Some of us have been nice little doormats for waaaay too long, and soft spoken didn't get us anything but walked on. Ya want a real woman who knows her own mind and doesn't mind speaking it, you might find one or two of those here, but not me, I've already been found!
I think what flipped him out so bad is that he's not used to me standing up for myself, but I ain't NOBODY'S doormat anymore. This little girl is not getting walked on by anybody!
Sorry to start that and just leave y'all hangin, just had to get it out of my system. He is out of my life now, for good and for all, has been for a loooong time, he just didn't realize it I don't think till today. He wanted to come by and bring my tag notice for my truck, so I figured ok, might as well get it over with, maybe we can sit and have a civil chat like normal human beings. Well, in order for that to happen both parties need to be normal human beings, and a beer-soaked brain is not really conducive to that. He started out nice enough, asked me about how I'd been doing, blah-blah-blah, then he has to make a comment about how he couldn't believe out of all people how I effed him over. EXCUSE ME! Just how the eff did I eff him over, I left with NOTHING! I packed up my clothes and my stuff and left, exactly how did he get f--ked? He proceeds to act all hurt and innocent, and I had enough and told him to get the f--k outta MY yard. He left, end of story.
Thank you Reva, that was so sweet, and I didn't even know there was one, thank you everyone who wished me a happy birthday, your wishes came true for me, cause it was the best one EVER! Mmmmmmwwwwahhhhhhhhh!
RE: i dunno wat to do hear
This is an example of what we do really well here, hijack threads!