At least should have a trial period when starting out, giving one time to 'opt out' before signing up for the long haul.
Some people believe marriage is an easy track until they actually get there, then after all the legalities they find themselves 'deadlocked' for 2 years when everyone involved knows it's over.
(for those not in NZ, divorce takes a minimum 2 years here)
It's now 1206am January 2nd here in NZ, another year is well under way, and all the hype from the build up to New Years Eve 2007 is winding down.
And I am growing tired, so as I head off to a peaceful slumber I wish all of you from all around the world all the best for the rest of your January 1st & may you all have Health, Wealth & Happiness in your 2008.
I know it sounds like a cliche, but you need to work on yourself & if you & your wife are meant to be, it will happen when the time is right.
Let her have as much space as she needs and take this important time to work on yourself, try to avoid drugs if you can.
I suggest seeking professional advice, your depression is not something you can just 'switch off' with any drug, it takes timme to find the root of the problem & deal with the emotional baggage that you hold onto.
When you honestly DO make a change in yourself, she will see it & then she will believe you when you say you've changed.
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What is the record for the fastest growing thread? 
RE: Have u ever gone to the movies alone?
Yup sure have, usually choose a movie that is unpopular or has been at the theatre for ever, then you can really be alone.It's nice to watch a movie without interruptions.