Each time someone has risen for me in true defense. I remember each time and hold the memories and individuals who did aso, very very dear to my heart.
Projection can be a huge issue in my opinion as it can completely fail to match the reality we are confronted with. Think that is indeed one of the big ones while relationships often do break apart, once realisation sets in. We have reasons why we project, we project what we need in another, and the more complex our needs, the less possible I think to cope with it if the projection is not met by reality. No doubt one can compromise on some things, but some of our needs can be essential to have them met for our emotional wellbeing in a relationship, or at least I know this is the case for myself.
I loved milking cows as a child still do, was considering getting a Dexter but then ended with the goat instead (love her though, she is adorable even though she gets me into trouble with her free spirit)
I wrote a short story some point about a girl missing her last bus out of carelessness. Wrote it for a teenage magazine, thought I might as well try weave some messages about possible dangers of hitch hiking into the entertainment.
As for real stories.. never did it myself but have offered lifts to others, recently to a young lad. Would only do it during daylight though and where there are people who witness it.
Where is the child in an 'each to their own' statement? This 'choice' involves more than one, it also involves a being that needs love and care, and I challenge that any mother who will turn away from breastefeeding just because she doesn't want to - NOT because she can't, that's very different - shows a lower love and care level, as otherwise.. what argument could she possibly have to not provide her child with it? Because it could affect the looks of her breasts (an argument I have heard a plenty)? Or because she feels it 'unnatural'? How can something that nature has put in place be unnatural? Because it dos not fit into her daily scedule? How can a child fit into a scedule that can't provide breastfeeding?
A child is not a fashion item or a ego toy - it comes with heaps of responsibilities.
How can this be a 'personal choice'? I mean.. what about the child? No choice to the child, I assume? Feed it some formular, because.. ahem.. because... yieks... beacuse... drat - I can't come up with any valid reason! sozzy >.>
Medical issues, yes, but everything else to me sort of can only amount to selfishness, and looking after a baby and selfishness just do not go along in my inner realm, but maybe I am odd :'/
I just go by what I see in regards to such days. This isn't the first day, we have other days and still there is great poverty NOT created by nature but man and more examples. To me these days are farces, but indeed it is just my opinion on this subject
I find all these kind of days complete idiotic. Why do we need them suddenly? Humanity managed just fine without all this stupidity, mother and father days included. Makes no sense to celebrate someone ONE DAY A YEAR. Celebrate another every day of the year, and as for awareness - don't mess things up in the first place and no 'awareness' is needed (not as if this WOULD make anyone aware of anything anyway, is all just about tightening blind folds more and diverting from the real issues )
My heart has set itself on someone else to do that (gave him plenty of reasons already, no doubt about that ) but if all fails I shall remember you are out there, although I sort of doubt I'd enjoy dying by your hands quite as much
I should have known, that's the thing. My mama was a chain smoker. She was on 3 to 4 packs of mentols a day, it was horrendous. Papa had smoked heavy too but quit at around 45 or so (which means I am still okay, I hope, as he had started earlier, and he had no problems from it, at 80 he still outdid most 30 to 40 year old guys in fitness).
I was just an arrogant idiot, really, thinking I was better than everyone else *blushes deeply* but oh boy was that a humbling experience
I started the blasted things to prove a point >.< I was the ultimate anti-smoker, made it through all the peer pressure with EASE, and at 21 I ended with a bf who smoked and I realized when I was preaching that I didn't really have a clue, so I started to smoke to find out and prove to myself it was easy to stop.
Heavens.. only I can be THAT stupid
I am down to few now, on the verge of giving up, but damn it I could really strangle myself for that through process back then
I have never cared for looks, but attitude I guess is one of the words. The right attitude, the right set of mind, and the rest falls into place from there. I'd not have issues with someone being majorly overweight for example due to looks, but the attitude of the mind. A male should wish to stay fit, to me it is a natural conclusion any man should come to. There are also conclusions females should come to, and handbag collections are not one of those conlcusions in my view, among various other things.
Half an hour ago when I stepped out, I was greeted with the most wonderous sight. It had rained earlier, and there were still huge drain drops hanging in the bushes and trees at the other side of my field. The sun stood right above it, and the rays were caught in the raindrops. It was an ocean of hundreds of sparkles.. so so so beautiful..........
Now it is already gone, it was just the right moment of everything coming together to create that amazing sight. I wonder how often we miss things like that, either too busy or just not there, when such beauty happens.
I am ever so glad I did step out just at the special right moment.....
RE: What's on your mind part 15ish ..................or something like that
lol, and ty mj, I can always count on you for a