Well, the situation goes like this. We have been talking online since the middle of December, and started dating the first week of January, so it is really new to both of us. We get along great, and spend a lot of time together. And yes she has spent the night at my place many times. We totally click with each other, and her daughter thinks I'm a pretty good guy too. She has to get out of the place she is living by the end of March, and I can't handle staying in the place I'm living right now either. (4 roommates and 4 dogs) I'm completely confidant that we are going to work as a couple, it's just there for both of us. If she rents, she will end up in a dumpy place since she can't afford much being a single mom. I could stay where I'm at, but don't really want to. We've been looking at places on or near the beach and have found a few that we liked. We still have more than a month which gives us both time to know each other better, and find a place. We both have the same goals in life and are willing to work together to reach those goals. As for not having enough money to find separate places to live, I'm not sure how things work by you, but here it's first month, last month, and security deposit. that comes out to about $2700 just to sign a lease. then there's all the stuff we will need to actually get moved in. There's always the basics when you move, I've done it many times. The dates we go on are usually lunch in a park or at the beach (Which I make because I'm a Chef) a movie, art fairs, and other things that are relatively inexpensive. Sometimes it's just a cup of coffee at Starbucks and a walk. We aren't rich, and we want to reach our goals in life quickly. We aren't getting any younger. Am I completely nuts or what?
I think that a thunderstorm can be totally romantic. On one of the first dates that I had with my new girlfriend, we were walking down the beach about a half mile from our car and it started to storm. We ended up sitting under a restaurant on the beach until it passed over. (About 2 hours) it was really kewl to watch the lightning out over the ocean. Much different than the time I was out in the ocean on a 30 ft sailboat in a lightning storm. It struck the mast and took out all of our instruments. talk about an expensive sail. It cost about $4000 before everything was fixed, and I did all the work myself. That was scary!
Ok, so I met this woman online a couple of months ago. We got together for the first time about a month ago, hand have been really seeing each other for three weeks. We get along really good. When we're not working, we're together almost all of the time. she stays at my place at least 4 nights a week. We fit together in every way, and have fun doing everything that we do, whether it's going to the beach, going on a real date, or just sitting around watching TV . We both need to find a new place to live by the end of March, and I can't afford to do it on my own right now. My question is: How soon is too soon to move in with someone by your standards?
I'm sorry that you had to cheat on me, and I forgive you for that. Even though I don't love you anymore, I don't want to hate you. Thank you for letting me be free to enjoy the rest of my life, and I hope that you enjoy yours. I also hope that you find what you're looking for.
I completely agree. She has told me that she is over me, yet I have mentioned a couple of times about my new girlfriend, and she can't handle that. I get coments like "Did you have to throw that in there?". Yet I listen to her talk about the Guy that's flying her to Miami for the weekend on his private jet, and the guy she went to dinner with. I think it's great that she's dating other guys, but I'm not really interested in hearing about it. That's something she should talk about with her girlfriends. I truly believe that she isn't really over me because of the comments she makes, but I've moved on, and just want to live my life without her in it. Do you think that that is too much to ask?
She isn't my ex wife, but my ex girlfriend. There aren't any kids involved. I have told her. and I just can't get her to leave me alone. She even has been lurking here in the forums and has told me not to post anything about her. My response was " I'll post what I want and about whoever I want in these forums" I never post names or anything that could be traced back to them, so whats the harm in a little advice and forum therapy. If she would just realize that If she would leave me alone, that would make me happy. She always says that she wants me to be happy.
Do you ever break up with someone and she wants to be friends, so you do and then change your mind? I have an ex that wants to be friends and I don't anymore. What can I do. I just want to move on with my life without her. I know that you can never have enough friends, but I just don't want to even talk to her anymore.
Do you clean the litter box often? If I didn't clean the litter box every three days, they pooped places that I would find it to let me know. The ex finally took the cats it was much easier. Not the dead ones from the other post!
I dated woman that was six years younger than I was and found that she had a lot of growing up to do. she was a good person at heart, she just didn't understand what a real relationship was about. I also dated a woman that was six years older than I was and that's a whole different story. I don't even want to go there.
I guess I've never looked at what type of women I have dated. But there isn't really a type so to speak. I've dated all different kinds of women, and none of them have ever worked out. Maybe the next one will. I wonder if I'm her type?
WOW!!!!! Thanks Hugs, I needed that reality check. That has to be the longest and best thread I've read so far. I'm glad I got out when I did. Thanks again
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