Kept the baby and she is now two and a half years old. She also gets anything she wants, maybe that's not healthy but I can't help myself. As I said, I will not make her suffer for my mistakes.
Hmmmm.......some lessons have to be learnt the hard way I suppose. But yes, I eventually got a hold of him and he's paying up, although he denies her existence. I will not let my daughter suffer for our mistakes of the past.
I was never (according to the doctors) meant to have children. Muscle overgrowth, etc. I started dating this guy. Yes sure, we went out every once in a while, but never in town, always outside of town and we always ended up back at my place.
He always seemed distant and I thought that's the way he was. It was as big a shock to me as it was for him, but I was overwhelmed with joy. I guess I was a bit naive at the time.
How did I manage to get pregnant then? The same question popped into my head, as I had evidence that proved just the opposite. Well, that's a really sad story.
Point is, I love my daughter to bits and would not trade her for anything in the world.
I have selected "marriage" but before submitting my profile, I changed it to "long-term". I guess the reason for this is because I don't want to seem to hurried. At the end of the day, who wouldn't want to get married?
What I meant was that we dated for about three months in which time I got pregnant. When I told him the supposedly good news, he informed me that he was married.
Although I'm not that new to CS anymore (already 1 week), I'd like to take the time to introduce myself to everyone. This is my 1 week anniversary and I'm already addicted to this site. I couldn't wait to get online this morning, but when I got to work, I realized that I forgot my handbag at home (office keys inside). Consequently, I had to rush home, passing 3 traffic cops on my way at 80 miles an hour. Should I get any fines, I'll be glad to pay it. Chatting to you guys makes up for it..
Now, I know not all guys are like this but how's this for a bummer? My previous boyfriend got me pregnant BEFORE I found out he was married. Has this ever happened to anyone on this site? And if it did, what did you do?
By the way, I think you underestimate yourself. He's a beef with muscle, you're a beef with muscle AND brains. I'd be mighty glad to wrestle a guy with all that qualities.
Me? I like a nice cold Castle Lager at the end of the day. I'm leaving in about an hour. Just wanna say, "Hope all of you's have a great weekend". For those of you who are looking for your partner in love, hope you find them.
Have been there as well, got my own depression poem, one I wrote after I committed suicide. I say committed because I was really dead for about 2 minutes. Those days are long gone now, luckily. I thought I'd rather share this one with you. Keep it up and don't let those ghosts get to you.
FEELINGS
Feelings, emotions racing through my head Should I be happy or should I be scared
Confusion, clarity all mixed in one The battle is neither lost nor won
My yearning heart skips a beat or two When either thinking or talking to you
Never have I felt so good and so high Knowing my love for you can conquer the sky
Always thinking love to be foolish, childish I now know better and know how to cherish
Desperately trying to find words describing Irritated because the words go in hiding
Silly, playful thoughts capture my essence Wanting to share my life and possessions
Where have you been my love, all along Years wasted, words rephrased in a song
Despair hugs me upon suddenly realizing Life can be so short and so surprising
Images of going through this life without you Scares me and makes me feel blue
Unspoken wishes and unspoken words Fills my being with longing and hurt
Will I be noticed by the essence of you Don’t know but will sure try to capture your view
Being mom to a two-year old daughter myself, in a crime-ridden country like ours, I can almost relate to these parents as I pray for my daughter's safe-keeping each and every night and hope God gives me the strength to forgive the preps if something like this ever happened to my daughter.
For now, little Maddy and her parents are included in my prayers for safe-keeping. Never, ever give up hope.
RE: Just a thought but having read some profiles and...........
Nice meeting you too MerryBerry