I don't do second chances anymore. In the end, all it has ever gotten me was less trust in people and more heartache. It isn't worth it most of the time.
For some, it may be a need to get over a feeling of failure, or rejection....by being able to interact and see if someone else can be attracted to them, it lessens the negative feelings a bit. But allowing themselves to get caught up in another relationship right away is usually a basis for failure.
Personally, I am not ready for involvement on that type of level, due to the recent past .... my reason for being here is simply to meet people from other areas and learn a bit.
Personally, even though it happens often, I don't think anyone should expect to find someone on a singles site, but instead, consider it a place to meet people you otherwise wouldn't have the opportunity to meet. Thinking of finding someone within a certain time period, or just within a small slice of the internet, isn't realistic.
If anyone is interested, I have a site for Hoosiers, basically a discussion forum for all types of Indiana topics. If you want the site URL, please message me.
RE: HUNKATHON 2,IS ALMOST HERE
Someone sounds a bit impatient .....