Sandals Forum Posts (545)

RE: ideal date

Jeeez....I fell for this story and you had me in dreamland!! That was sooooo wrong Dandy!!! I pictured you looking like a movie star, drooling over the yacht, thinkin about WHAT the dinner was with the wine, and OMG....so funny!

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

No, because if she loves the Dad, she'll love his son..eventually!

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

Paddy, in my case, Jason DID test the waters, so to speak. He would deliberately create an issue that he KNEW would annoy me but one that his Dad would fluff off as "boys will be boys." He used to instigate arguments between his Dad and myself. At first I let it roll off my back like water off a duck's butt....until I sat down with him and we had a heart-to-heart.

RE: ideal date

You and me both, Danelion!! As long as he's not gay!

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

Paddy, I hope you meet someone who will adore your son as much as YOU do. THEN there won't be any problem! I was in a relationship after my divorce with a man who had a son and to this day I'm as close to him as my own....and his Dad and I are still friends after our 10 year relationship fizzled out. Keep lookin for that special woman. You'll find her.

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

Please everyone...I shouldn't be making jokes about this because it IS a serious question, and a GOOD question. Paddy deserves to get the good answers he's getting. Honestly...children are "always" the most important issues in a relationship and THEN should come the adults and theirs.

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

Ah...okay good! Thanks Paddy...because I'm NOT dumb by any stretch!

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

Thank you dio! Having experienced it, I know first hand that it CAN BE DONE without anyone's feelings getting hurt! Take care of the kids and take ME on a trip to Vegas!! Wooooooo! Works everytime!
(JUST kidding!)

RE: In a new permanent relationship, who comes first, your children by your first partner, or your new p

I think it should be your children BUT a tactful man would be able to make it happen without the new partner feeling she's coming in 2nd. How's that suit ya Paddy? Good answer? Hammmmfppfghghhla...and you thought I was just another dumb blond!!

RE: Guys, i couldn't wait to get home

I'm fairly new (just registered yesterday) and I really like it here but they don't have a place to "Edit" a post. I'm always screwing up with typos and don't catch them til AFTER the fact. Makes me crazy having to leave it.....so everybody ...... please screw up so I don't feel stupid!

RE: hey out there

That's toooo funny! Thanks but I think I'll see another one a mile away!!! Just cuz he's tall, hunky, and fun to be with doesn't mean he's straight!

RE: Guys, i couldn't wait to get home

There's no place like home! Right?

RE: hey out there

He never admitted he was gay and seemed to accept my 2 or 3 excuses when I declined his invitations to go out. TWO YEARS LATER, I was a volunteer at a local Home Show. WHO SHOULD WALK IN verrrrry chuummy with a GUY!!! YUP...you guessed it! Mr. Macho/FEM! I wanted to puke!
HOW COULD I HAVE NOT SEEN IT SOONER?

RE: hey out there

YES...it DID!! Talk about fooling ME!! All he wanted was someone to socialize with and be seen in public with a woman. Don't get me wrong, he was fun, we had many laughs, BUT after a month it was ME who wanted to take our relationship a little further. He backed up like I was covered in donkey doodoo!

RE: hey out there

Rac, I've been single for FOUR years and, as you said, "here I am!" I DID have an internet love interest two years ago that lasted about 4 months and the whole time I thought he was manly yet feminine. How could someone so macho be gay? WELLL....he WAS and it took me tooo long before I realized it and told him, "bye bye."


May YOU be a lot more fortunate and find a perfect match!!

RE: Looking at profiles-What interests you/Turns you away?

****runs out of room to change profile*****

I think that's exactly what I put in it: "Easy going!! Love to laugh!!"

You're right. Okay...I'm changin it to:

"Can't have more than 4 glasses of wine or I get stinkin drunk"... or
"Don't make me mad cuz ya don't want to hear me yelling."

RE: who rocks your world and who makes it that little bit better for you

I WISH something or someone rocked my world!! My DOG rocks my world, which tells you how exciting MY life is!!!

RE: meeting up after 1 time chat?

Hush...ya better tell your mate (I think it's room-mate here in America) that he shouldn't be telling women he's a head chef UNLESS he knows how to make Chicken Piccata or a great Caesar Salad or SOMETHING to impress her!! It's not good to tell little white lies because they always come back to haunt ya!

RE: who inspires you? do you have a role model?

Okay...can I change my mind???? I sounded sooo self-centered and I'm not. (I just plain take care of myself) Okay...so I admire Mother Teresa AND Princess Diana for the work they did for those less fortunate and they SHOULD BE my role models! HOWEVER, since I love dogs, horses, cats, and any kind of animal, I admire anyone who works for the ASPCA, animal shelter, PETA, etc. I admire them so much for helping so many unwanted and/or abused animals.

RE: meeting up after 1 time chat?

Paddy, I think it's better to chat on-line for 2 or 3 WEEKS before you exchange phone numbers or arrange to meet. I met someone for lunch after chatting constantly for a WEEK and OMG...he was NOT what his profile pic looked like, he was more like 5'7' than 6', his sports car was a Camry with spoiler!! I was totally disappointed. His wit in person didn't come across half as funny as he was on-line, which was another odd thing! I sort of wondered if someone ELSE was posting for him. Needless to say..it didn't work out!

RE: who inspires you? do you have a role model?

Diane Keaton! We're both about the same age and I think she looks great! Most people in their 60's let themselves go and look like overweight piles of wrinkles! WHY???

WAKE UP KENTUCKY!!

Where are all the posters here? I chose "SPORTS" as the category hoping to attract a few men AND women who might like to talk about baseball or football!! I'm a die-hard Red Sox/Patriot fan! I also adore Tony Stewart and play golf. What's YOUR favorite team and what sport do you play?

An added note: I do NOT believe this board is so dead because Kentucky is a HUGE state!! There have to be LOTS of single people who are bored to death and able to chat on-line.

****leaves the room hoping SOMEBODY replies*******

RE: HELLO EVERYONE

DREAMER...your mother is 74 and checking out the website to meet someone? WOW!! I'm impressed! Nope...can't agree with you that age is only a number. MY number is UP!! haha ...I'm pretty much thinking that at my age the good men are taken, gay, or looking for women in their 20's. At least it's fun to come here and chat with reasonably sane people in the same boat as me!

RE: what's the greatest movie of all times ?...and why ? tell us about it ..!

ColdinWisconsin...."Legends of the Fall"....GREAT choice!

My two favorites are:
"Dances with Wolves" ...never get tired of watching it!
"Bridges of Madison County".... incredible love story!

RE: so any plans for the weekend?

Good luck jlewis!! Hope it'll be a perfect match for you both!
MY weekend will be filled with housework, laundry, watering plants, let the dog out, ironing, let the dog in, doing my nails, buying groceries, and exercising!! Fun, fun, fun!!
Lord, I need a life!!

RE: HELLO EVERYONE

Welcome to YOUUUUUU and MEEEEEEE!! I just signed up today as well, mostly because I was bored and not because I thought there'd be a chance in he// of ever meeting someone special. At least it's fun to chat with others who might be bored, alone, or just plain loaded with too much free time on their hands!!

Good luck to you!! You're young enough that YOU could meet the perfect woman here!

RE: New Pics

Congratulations to you both! What a sweet ending for two people who met on the Internet!! I wish you a lifetime of happiness!

RE: Wish me luck

Good luck to you! I barely have the courage to move across town!!

RE: who's your favourite comedian ?... and why ? my main main man will always be richard pryor !

Marie, I agree with you .... ROBIN WILLIAMS! The man is insanely funny, beyond quick witted, and I think he's from another planet to be so hilarious! LOVE him!

RE: meeting up after 1 time chat?

I wouldn't do it! At least chat with her for a WEEK before deciding to meet her. Just my honest opinion, but good luck, no matter what you decide!! She COULD BE Ms. Right!!