b_n_d Forum Posts (3,675)

There is Hope...some Pointers

I've seen some guys on here that think they only should have women younger then them. That's a crock, What if women felt that way. That would mean all guys that are 55 would only be able to date women older. Get over the age thing people. Two examples, Judy is 71, she posts it proudly. I doubt a man of 60 years could keep with Judy, yet they won't consider her cause her age? That's crazy. One more, Paws, this man is in excellent shape, well loved by all, so he gets cut out cause someone decides 59 is the limit. Like mindful say's, it's a case by case basis. Does this make sense to anyone else?

There is Hope...some Pointers

I can't help it, Thanks

There is Hope...some Pointers

I wanted to quickly add, I think some of you should re evaluate the ages you are looking for, some women or men see that and instantly think, "No Chance" When I was 44 I dated a 54 year old. She looked like a 30 year old and acted like one. So to limit the age really cutting your odds down.

There is Hope...some Pointers

The single life has its share of highs and lows, more lows by far. Some handle it well, others are lost in confusion. I've been there. My girl Ice, has been there. We've overcome this. I read the threads and see massive depression, I see confusion, despair . Then I see humor. Sweet sweet humor, It's the humor that got me by when I was low. To this day, I haven't seen many posts that could ever match my lowest point. I over came it. How? I quit trying so damn hard. I quit searching for profiles in my area. I quit sending out 40 messages based on those searches, to get maybe 2 or 3 responses. It wears you down. That's where all the ; "Why doesn't anyone respond to me comes from" or "What am I doing wrong". I used to post those threads, it got me no where.

No one likes a down puppy!

I've said it many times, I'll say it again. interact in the forums, Read profiles, blogs, get to know someone a little bit before massive E-mails are sent. Have fun, post topics that are thought provoking, so you get feedback. There are so many good people on this site, I find it hard to believe that some are still single, but I will say this. 6 months before I met Ice, I heard the same thing from many. So don't give up!

One more thing, if you want to increase your odds of meeting your match, put in your profile, that you may consider relocating if it's an option for you.. This opens a whole new world of opportunity for all.

Why are we here? To encourage those, and show it can be done. To help shed light in dark areas, to help with the laughter when you are down.

Peace friends.

RE: What Temps you ?

ADVENTURE. Blood pumping adventure.

RE: Business Ideas, have you got any?

Mitch I have it, Been thinking about for a while now. A program for phones that bypasses the push 1 for english. Even at 1 dollar a pop, we could be rich. Remember,.... I sad we

Broken Dreams

Thanks Gail

RE: Trifling People...

The problem I always have, is I never have enough Chip dip to go with mine. Oh wait, those are Ruffles.

RE: Trifling People...

I was close. What about those little french candies, Truffles right?

RE: What is the most extreme thing you have....

Enter a mine shaft and follow it all the way to the end. Usually there were Javelins, or rattlesnakes in the mines. I treid for years in this particular one. Could have been a cougar in it. Finally I got to complete this task, very dangerous but very fun

RE: What do you do or say, when you COME...?

WTF how about OMFG

RE: What do you do or say, when you COME...?

Why get Married?

Still makes no sense why you would have to pay the state to prove your love. I'm confident in my relationship. We decided to get rings, but don't paper to make it solid, We know it's solid

Why get Married?

RE: Trifling People...

I seen that on Star Trek once

Broken Dreams

Thanks Marge I usually don't read then thru either.

M.I.A.

My main concern was Speedy, but since he's logged in yesterday. I'll assume he's alright. The others I could care less about.

M.I.A.

jkelly, bigdude

M.I.A.

Speedy logged in yesterday, read my e-mail. So he must be alive, but is he alright, is another question. Not like him to not get involved in the forums.

RE: Micro Chipped

RE: Micro Chipped

You don't know how many humans already are implanted. What you speak of is in the near future whether you like it or not. Maybe sold to the public as a way to find childern, but in fact a way to keep tabs on everyone. JMO.

M.I.A.

I talk to speedy almost everyday on messenger, but he hasn't been around, maybe he's tasking a break to see if anyone noticed.

M.I.A.

Legalboxers was one, he wasn't on here long, went straight to my thread, was extremely offensive to me and Nikki.

M.I.A.

Aside from the recent fake profiler that got canned, there seems to be someothers missing. Obviously if a fake profiler was tied to another account, both would vanish. I haven't seen Speedy one here for 4 days now. That is odd, anyone know if speedy was going out of town or anything?

RE: Happy Tuesday

The thread is still running, just go back a page or two

RE: Happy Tuesday

Yeah still a few standing, round 36 I think.

Broken Dreams

There ya go.

RE: Finish this.....Love is.......

Love is trusting, love is honest. Tonic. "You wanted more"

RE: favorite live rock album of all time!!!!

Oh yeah have to ad Cheap Trick, Now Priest is my all time favorite band. Best live performance. But the live recording blow, At least the ones I've heard.

RE: Bad first impressions

and weddings