Hugz_n_Kissez Forum Posts (25,438)

RE: No fighting or sadness only silliness

Don't ask don't tell....

RE: No fighting or sadness only silliness

Seeeeeeeee we can learn something from fish....

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I can just see it now...separate corners...and both of you puffin up tryin to scare each other in the beginning....

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YAYYYYYYYYYYYY..Now if us humans could only learn something from those fish....

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Thanx Will...

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I can't wait...I'm excited to get back at my forte'....

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Great I have an interview for a new job on Tuesday....

RE: No fighting or sadness only silliness

Hey will...good to see ya....

RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

Sorry that... emotion wasn't suppose to be in there....

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RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

Wellll then my kids better take damn good care of me is all I can sayyyyyyyy....

RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

That could be it...but don't forget back in those days it was a different time...people didn't talk about it and women were conditioned to stay in marriages regardless..which yes was wrong...BUT that was the way things were then...soooooo it's us as adults who pay for that now that we're older after growing up that way....

RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

Mines fight....NOT flight....Gee I bet ya couldn't have guessed that one...

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It is...and I had 3 kinds to break...sooooo...it was tough and still is at times...

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Yes me too because it's a big secret and you can't talk about it...soooooo you have all this stuff inside that you can't even say...and it's a daily fear of is my mother gonna live or die today....I think that's the hardest part...

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Now you know why I don't sweat the small stuff because everything is small compared to some of the stuff I have been through in my lifetime...short of killing me...you can't do much worse....

RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

Yessssssss...some have been through hell and back and I don't doubt there a lot of women and men out there who could tell even worse stories....

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You do too doll....

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Yes we should...BUT unfortunately we all forget that everybody has a story...and just choose to see the negative stuff and not encourage the positive....

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Dawn you're a beautiful woman and those of us that are feisty...I see it as a plus because we won't let ourselves or often others be put down because we have been there done that...and it's a strength not a weakness...but that doesn't mean that we don't have the other side of us too because we do....

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Yes it does...and I wanted to be healthy and have a healthy relationship so my kids could grow healthy...and they have...but they haven't really seen what a healthy relationship is either...BUT I have tried to at least teach them what it is...and yes I only am a fighter now against...what I see as being unfair...the other side of me is mush....and thanx doll...I appreciate it....

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See I don't have that...or didn't...my father was abusive toward my mother...and my mother was busy off in another world always defending herself...and we were just sort of there...in fact I was also my mothers defender...he never raised a hand to us girls but he did to my brother...BUT we were verbally abused as kids certainly..S...It was the way he was raised...and soooooo for me...SOOOOOOO I have been fighting it seems almost since I was 8 years old...because I had to...and after awhile one just gets tired of having to fight and doesn't want to have any part of it anymore..and that's the spot I am in right now....I had a lot of healing to do before I could know what healthy was as far as relationships...BUT I did vow that I would never let myself be treated that wayyyyyyyyy or let my kids see what I saw as a kid...and I have always kept those vows...What I know...I have had to teach myself and of course I am still learning...

RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

Nope no them...he's worked different jobs and had his own business but she's always had good high paying exec jobs...but she's worked hard for them too....and it works for them...BUT then they are both really laid back...people full of humour so maybe that helps...

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Me too...I had to teach myself those things...and yes you can have both....

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Yesss...I know PPV...the man cracks me up but at the same time yes he has a heart of gold...and directness is a hell of a lot better than guessing...That's what I want in my 60's too...someone who adores me and who I adore just as much...You're fortunate to see that though...the only ones I have really had as role models for something healthy is my aunt and uncle who have been together since they were teens and the roles are switched...she's the high exec who travels all over and he stays home and keeps the house etc...and he loves it....but they also adore each other...and that's the nice part....

RE: WHAT'S WRONG WITH WESTERN WOMEN?

I can't help it...eggnog is my weakness....and yeahhhhhh I know...hey we're all just nuts..It doesn't mean we're not all bright.....

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Yesssssssss.....I hear ya...

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AWWWWWWWWWEEEEEEE...Thanx doll...wellllllll ya know I like to highlight stupidity with something just as stupid....

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Really...maybe we need an Asian dating site.....Ohhhhhhh yeah I forgot...no more men...straight career for this woman....

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Ohhhhhhh trust me...I would love to travel...I love meeting new people and learning about different cultures too....Robski...Ohhhhhhh I am sure it has some funny meaning behind it....