I'm so sorry to hear about yours situation. all of the choices come with extremely tough decisions....i was in the medical field, i know the advances are miraculous, however the donor issue is a problem mainly because of rejection of the new organ.
Basically you're stuck with number 2 leading to number 3.....the body can take only so much dialysis before that will stop working..........for some it's years for others mere months.
start with friends and family, talk to them and see who may be willing to donate(siblings are your best bet, then your children)
RE: Attention single parents...
thank youit really is nice to hear that once in a while and know it's heartfelt