"Success is not measured by what position you have achieved in life, but my how many obstacles you have won"...helps to know I have won more then I lost:) But the advice I live by is to Treat others, the way I want to be Treated.
hahaha...well that's what I thought I was doing in the begining. However I got some heat about it and they asked me how I classify it, I didnt know...that was more why I asked. Thanks tho
Believe in Karma...sure as much as believing in treating others as I want to be treated. Not sure what other way to be. Still knowing bad things happen to good people will always be there. Always lessons to be learned...
My prayers are with you as well. Take a time out, its much needed. Just dont give up on the male species all together, there are great guys out there and not all are heartless. Chalk it up as a lesson learned and find the positives always...
mr. dougie...i get it, was asking for clarification. sure i could of went bck and read previous posts and seen if I found my answer. Regarding the weight issue...there tends to be more of a stigma with that then with the color of ones hair or their height. but hey I appreciate your input
I'm very sorry for what happened, its a hard situation to be in. But one you have more control over then you think. I've been there and used poor judgement and had to rely on my mothering skills and do alot of explaining. its a time you have to be strong. for what I've read of it, your son has every right to be mad at this man and I would let him. but not sure why he would feel its his fault or to think to kill himself over this person. I have to limit the impact and control a man has in my life and in my children's for no person is worth ending a life for... no matter the age. Regardless, your son is going to depend on and see how you handle the situation, if your beat up and depressed to a large degree, he inturn will take that upon himself. You have to find your inner strength to get both of you through this. Best of Luck...
I realize how important it is to love and respect yourself and before anyone else can. As much as I would like to say looks dont matter, cuss they do to a point. And agreed all people see it differently, I was just after a general concensus (sp..I didnt use google) I've lost alot of weight (was obese..that one I knew the standards on), so I was just curious on where I might place myself now. yeh that was hard to say Again thanks for the help...ooby (?) i'm gonna stick with a few extra pounds for the time being, as my bravery isnt strong enough to put my weight on here, just yet. Thanks for your kind words. Ambrose-your calculations seem fair enough..I like them
I havent really been in the forums much til today, its fun and has been an eye opener to say the least. I've noticed many nice and good-hearted people as well as some that lack social skills and kindness. I am ok with who I am as a person inside and out, sadly I havent always been..but today is what counts not my yesterdays. Yeh onto my question...
My question: As much we want people to look and judge our character and personality, obviously our physical appearance is a factor. when judging a person's body type, I'm curious by what people consider "fat", "few extra pounds", or "BBW"...as I'm sure I've been all three at one time or another...haha!!! Just wondered if there is a standard rule...As I re-read this it sounds like a pretty lame question, but I've asked dumber things am sure...
hey Heather Anne...you look fine and your profile reads well, except that remark about the "cow". I would personally take that off, no need to compare yourself to a cow. Could say you're no Pamela Anderson and that would say the same thing. Anyways, don't give up..theres plenty of decent guys out there, patience is a virtue. I'm sure waiting and finding the right guy is better then jumping for just a "somebody". Please dont take offense to anything I said, you appear to sweet to give up at age 33. Cuz its hard at 38 yrs sometimes too. Head up:)
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RE: BEST ADVICE YOU EVER HEARD
"Success is not measured by what position you have achieved in life, but my how many obstacles you have won"...helps to know I have won more then I lost:)But the advice I live by is to Treat others, the way I want to be Treated.