77vett I guess you make an excellent point it depends on the individual and there strengths and weaknesses. Good for you sounds like you have the right attitude and a good head on your shoulders and a strong sence of self respect wish I would of had it...
Keep positive thoughts and happiness will come your way
I agree about the baggage part and everyone having it. I also know that many people do continue as room mates or as friends living together. I just would not be comfortable with that and for me it would be a wall between us as I would always wonder if ..... and the trust thing may be hard to have. I know it sounds selfish but I can't help the way I feel. This is only of course if it is fresh out of a relationship. I mean later like years would be fine.
Darkest Amarige I do respect your opinion and beliefs though.
Actually I have been in the situation once and almost twice. thank god not twice. When I find out how fresh things are from long term relationship I bail. Perhaps it is due to my own feelings and insecurities from my own past relationship. Hypathetical question I guess.
o.k. Landshark if you like to drink and have fun that is great and wonderful knock one back for me also.
However I am a strong believer in respecting ones opinions and do not knock Doug because he has a different opion than you do.
It does not mean that he is a grump, it means he has a different perspective on the issue. I believe and I would hope most would agree that one should respect the others opinion and not try and inflict there own on to them but to learn from it or atleast try and consider it from a different perspective and lastly respect.
Well Cute and Shelby I guess that makes me the pittiful loaner on Dr. Phill getting the lecture and then the big question AND HOW'S THAT WORKEN FOR YA?
I must say if we are serious all the time it would be no fun in the forums. I also agree with Rob too though everyone is entitled to an opinion and each shouold respect the others opinion.
Doug I think you are just trying to make your opinion known and may have felt that it was being down played and I do not believe that it was intended that way and when you get up from your nap and reread the notes I hope you agree. Sleep Well
I must say if we are serious all the time it would be no fun in the forums. I also agree with Rob too though everyone is entitled to an opinion and each shouold respect the others opinion.
Doug I think you are just trying to make your opinion known and may have felt that it was being down played and I do not believe that it was intended that way and when you get up from your nap and reread the notes I hope you agree. Sleep Well
I must say if we are serious all the time it would be no fun in the forums. I also agree with Rob too though everyone is entitled to an opinion and each shouold respect the others opinion.
Doug I think you are just trying to make your opinion known and may have felt that it was being down played and I do not believe that it was intended that way and when you get up from your nap and reread the notes I hope you agree. Sleep Well
Surprising to here that so many men know what they want and they all went beyond the physical beuty. WTG men. LOL and Rob enjoy the tree Shelby is write it is cheaper in the long run and does not argue or nagg or talk back to you.
I think it is a two way street that just happens i agree with cute and take it from there just start emailing back and fourth and see how it goes. Keep your key aspects to a relationship in mind.
Cute so sorry to here that happened to you, I think you are a lovely person, you always have something positive to say to someone no matter how negative of a conversation or topic they ore on. That is a truly unique and genuine quality that is like gold. Overweight well I am definately amongst the top ten and very self concious about it. Get upset to just meet someone because of it I am trying to learn to get past that issue and recogonize it is the inside that makes a person who they are the outside is just a shell that hides the true peanut so to speak lol. Too bad the rest of the world did not recognize it.
Mr. Lister you are certainly a crack up. Got to love your sense of humour that is for sure lol.
Hot Strawberries you raise an important point the pkg. hmm very imporant area to check out after all you need to ensure it is well wrapped before shipping it.
I think I would have to say the eyes on this one believe it or not as the eyes tell the whole story of what a person is all about and if you read the eyes than the rest should all fall into place. I also believe that the eyes are the outer mirror to the inner person beyond the physical shell if that makes sense.
I could not agree more arabella. I always reply when and if I recieve one. I have a hardtime to get the initiative to send one first though I believe it may be a rejection issue lol.
Well Mountain Man I must say I agree with you one hundred percent I have been in almost the exact situation as you. I was deeply hurt by it although I was not blocked I was shocked and I had no goodbye letter or why just stopped communicating no reason. I believe you were right to want others to know what happened by this person as she may do it to several people andit is not a game it is hurtful and to some devastating and humiliating. I understand that your intentions were good and that you did not mean to offend any one.
As for the others I can respect your opinions as well even if I do not agree with them I can respect them.
I also know that yes there is two sides to every story.
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77vett I guess you make an excellent point it depends on the individual and there strengths and weaknesses. Good for you sounds like you have the right attitude and a good head on your shoulders and a strong sence of self respect wish I would of had it...Keep positive thoughts and happiness will come your way