I have become rather bold (at least for me) lately and have been sending flowers to men who I find attractive through their pictures or from what they write in their profiles. I have been surprised to get nice, polite replies back, thanking me for the contact and stating what they are looking for in a mate. I find this VERY attractive in a man, even if they say they are too far away or have requirements that I do not fit. KUDOS for polite men! I think us ladies should do the same for each man who contacts us.
I could not agree more arabella. I always reply when and if I recieve one. I have a hardtime to get the initiative to send one first though I believe it may be a rejection issue lol.
I agree one hundred percent. I alway reply when I am sent a flower or an email, and even when angered by another's rudeness, or if I simply feel incompatible, try to break off communication with courtesy, at least. I'd like to take this opportunity to mention that if anyone felt slighted when I deleted my profile a few weeks back, I apologize. I have missed my friends!
can i just say ive been a naughty girl and i plead guilty to not emailing everyone who has sent me a flower or a message, and its because im to excited to get on the forums
I've only recevied one, and I swear I got scared. I was like "omg someone thinks I'm cool!" Least to say, i don't get many, but I did reply and thanked her =)
I have sent flowers to guys....most replyed,but theres always the one who thinks he is too hot 4 me lol. I try to write back to everyone,even if i am not attracted to them,cant have too many friends!!A lot of the men i have e-mailed,I really didn't expect them to respond,but most did,if nothing else just to say thanks.So ladies we shouldnt be affraid to make the first move..........whats the worse that could happen?
I agree with you Arabella, having a guy reply politely, make you feel good, and wanted.... it shows that there are guys out there that grow up and can be a gentleman to women rather than be dogs, which by the way is so childish. Anyways just wanted to say I agree all the way.
I would like to add that to my delighted suprise, everyone who has written to me, has been very kind if not prompt. I also realise that some of you have lives that go on while I just waste away if front of the computer.:)
i like receiving and sending flowers if the person i send a flower to is not interested why not say thanks for the thought i think it very important to be nice and at least say hey it cant hurt
I have a real life in here. I have a real life at work. The more real this place came to me the more real I was at work. My realness hasn't stop growing in here since I got here. The invisible box is my conscious. Conscious the final frontier. Nope, I need my conscious. It is the only thing holding my sanity in check.
I'll answer all that I recieve thanking them for taking an interest in me and I'll include one of my 3 email addresses if they wish to correspond back and forth. If they don't fit my criteria I'll give the reason and in closing I'll wish them the best in finding that special someone.
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