It's kind of a secret, but not something I would ask my daughter. Or in fact , would want her to tell me.. Things like that make me feel uncomfortable.
Well , I do have an early start in the morning & my memory isn't what it was. There are certain cases when chains are involved , in which case, I'm tied down for the night .
Ok , I didn't invent it, but I extended it, so it can mean several other thinks, like the example I have you about not telling the whole truth... Now give me that one so u can go peacefully & have my dinner before I turn into something that resembles tomcatwarne .
No , I'm saying, the reason your are terminating the relationship, is because YOU personality , find him boring in bed, etc. . So by sparing his feelings, in reality , you are ghosting .
Ok, I'll give you an example!! Say for instance, you found that after a few dates, you found him to be very boring, as well as a lousy lover.. What words would you use , to terminate the relationship?
I agree , if it was a serious relationship & that the other party was under the impression that the relationship was leading to something more concrete.. But there are times when silence or ghosting, speaks more than any words can.
What's the biggest secret.....
You mean they weren't aware that you was adopted.