Thanks, all of you. That's what I did. She'll probably do it, but she'll tell Em bye first. I told her we would be there in the future if she needed us, but that she had been through far too much in the past months and needed to do whatever she had to do. We would support her.
Adams mom is wanting to stop contact with us because she thinks Em won't move on until she does.
We're really upset about this. We care a lot about them. It isn't all about Adam and Em. We want Jenna to move on however she can, but we still want to keep in touch.
Let me also say JB, that there is nothing wrong with you. You're fabulous!! And I mean that! I think there is some poor man that looks at you from afar and says, "She's too special. She'll never want to be more than friends with me."
Honestly JB, men can be intimidated by a woman who seems to have it all. Maybe you should just show him/them that you don't have it all - you don't have him!
I haven't read through the thread, JB. I'm just getting started here, but I think Pat has a point.
How often do you meet someone that you might actually be interested in, and then invite them to be part of your group of friends, intending to get to know them a bit, check them out, before you decide anything about him.
What if, instead of all that, you ask a man on a DATE, a real honest to god, just the two of you, evening of getting to know one another?
When you invite people into your group, they become one of your friends and you both end up seeing one another in that fashion.
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RE: would you snog the one above you
nothing else is working out for us, maybe we should switch.